Okay if PUA's say dates aren't good. Then what are you supposed to do if your not a club type? Like what if you want to hang out with a girl and want to go on a date like the movies or something? What can you do instead of partying? And whats your take on buying them stuff? If I don't buy them anything, they'll mummur to themselves about how cheap and lame I am...

No, what PUA's say is that doing what is typical isn't good. Most 'date' scenarios are typical.

Paintball, surfin, concert, snow boarding, late night romp through walmart. Be creative.
That depends on how you do it, purposefully avoid situations in which money need be applied? or merely point out you aren't their bitch? and easy way to still pay, but not be the bitch (though not ideal) is go halves.

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A date is only as typical as the person who takes the girl on it, you should be doing something that you'll both enjoy and making it your duty to keep it fun and interesting for her so that it stands out from the rest of the dates she's been on. Admitedly though, locations/activities that wouldn't be seen as typical for dates will make this easier for you.

When it comes to buying/paying I don't see the harm in doing it if you're the one that pushed for the date in the first place, especially if you know full well it's going to cost money, if this is a problem then you've shot yourself in the foot by not planning to go somewhere cheaper or free. This isn't to say that girls wont offer to pay for themselves and often they will. If it's a mutual thing or even she suggests it then you want to go halfs really, I have yet to find a girl who wont go halfs/pay for herself under these circumstances.

fuck what other's say; live your life the way you fucking feel like livin it.
I preach this message, and I'm not the only one. you wanna do something, then do it -- stop worrying about what some dude said goes against ''guidelines''. you feel like going on a date, then do so. just have fun with it. here is a list of random shit you can do.

1. Go on a search for as many good climbing trees as possible, climb as high as you both can in all of them, compile photo evidence

2. Go to a major chain bookstore, and leave notes to future readers in copies of your favorite books

3. Have her dress up as a ghost and you dress uup us Pacman. Walk around downtown holding hands, and whenever anyone sees you two, pretend to be embarrassed, and run off screaming “wocka wocka wocka.”

4. Create photo evidence suggesting that you went on an adventure that didn’t really happen

5. Dress up as superherous and stop at least one petty crime “ie. jaywalking, littering….”

6. Build forts out of furniture and blankets, and wage war with paper airplanes.

7. Try and visit as many people as you can in one night, and turn as many things inside their apartment upside down as you can, without them noticing.

8. Go to the airport, get the cheapest, soonest departing flight to anywhere when you show up, and stay there for a weekend.

9. Write a piece of fiction together. Outside at a cafe. Ask strangers when you get stuck.

10. Dress to the nines, pretend to be married, and test drive very expensive vehicles at an auto dealership.

11. Do the lamest tourist thing in your area that you have both secretly wanted to do forever. Have an unabashed good time!

12. In the middle of the night, drive to the beach, so you arrive just as the sun is rising. Have a breakfast picnic, then fall asleep together. Bring a sun umbrella.

13. Drive somewhere unknown and have dinner in a city you’ve never been to. With fake names.

14. Go to a minor league baseball game under the stars. Tell each other stories about how bad you are at athletics. Randomly cheer for both teams. Eat lots of
Cracker Jacks.

15. Go around the city with sidewalk chalk and draw hearts with equations inside on random things

16. Walk around a city and perform short silent plays in front of security cameras

17. With camera and pair of boots, make photolog of a day in the life of the invisible man.

18. Walk around the city all night and find a place to eat breakfast at dawn

19. Go to a restraunt and convince the cook to create something completely new for you.

20. Rent a movie you’ve never seen before. Set on mute and improvise dialogue.

and if you feel like buying her something, then do that too. you're showing your appreciation for her, assuming you already have some sort of rapport with her. you are not buying her love. stay congruent with who you are; don't let others define you.

---Snatch

I like these ones

snatch, those are awesome ideas!

those are some awesome idea lol

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damn granny. i love the post! just the suggestion of doing some of that stuff by text has gotten hb 8-9s hooked for me.