This is really starting to piss me off. He's 19, never kissed a girl, let alone held a girlfriend. His only girlfriend was back in 7th grade, I hooked him up with chick with huuuge tits and they dated for a year but yet he never did anything with her. Never kissed her, never held her hand, hell he never even hugged her!

When we came back from Italy, he convinced me to tell his friends that he got laid by a drunk red haired chick at a beach party. I did it because I felt sorry for him and I wanted him to look cool because his friends are all band geeks and boy scouts.

I gave him my copy of The Game and he read damn near the whole thing. He wrote down a bunch of shit like a whole list of negs, the Mystery Method step by step, etc. I showed him the forum. Ive told him that if he stays the same way he is now he is never going to be happy because at the moment he's not happy. Ive brought him out sarging with me and showed him the success he could be having with girls and yet he still dosent fucking do anything! I've explained to him that PUA isnt a "magic bullet" that will instantly cure all your women problems. Ive told him constantly he just needs to go out there and do it but he just fucking wont.

I need help. I dont want my brother to grow up being the 40 year old virgin. I dont want him to marry the first girl that actually likes him and him winding up being stuck in a horrible relationship for the rest of his life.

I dont know what else to do. Please help me guys

keep on encouraging him to sarge, and give him advice, as soon as he starts to see success he will get into it,


I wish my bro would give it a try, he thinks its a joke, wont even test it out, hes in the same situation as your brother

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-Dre

If your going to question me, you better have a theory behind your argument.

"Never be bullied into silence. Never allow yourself to be made a victim. Accept no one's definition of your life; define yourself."
-Harvey Fierstein

Hey remember he is new to this whole thing and Im sure he is very intimidated by the whole idea. Push him but dont criticize him...asure him that its ok to fail and that even the best PUA's fail and are turned down many many times before having success.

He looks up to you so never make fun of him or act like there is somthing wrong with him....just coach him and push him out of his comfort zone.

Give this quote to him and let him know its ok to fail but he needs to push him self out of his comfort zone or he will always be the same.

"I have missed more than 9000 shots in my career. I have lost almost 300 games. On 26 occasions I have been entrusted to take the game winning shot... and missed. And I have failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why... I succeed."
Michael Jordan

when it all comes down to it, every man is a lone tower in a thunderstorm

he'll realize that someday and come around to

Thats one of my favorite quotes. He's not really new to it, he watched both seasons of The Pickup Artist, and Ive been encouraging him since I got into it back in late 2007.

I never make fun of him, well besides the usual way brothers treat eachother lol but I never make fun of him for not being able to get girls.

I think he's scared of change

work with him on his inner game, show him videos like courage wolf, make him realize that he deserves what ever he wants

If at the end he still doesn't want to change, then give him some more time, eventually he will

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-Dre

If your going to question me, you better have a theory behind your argument.

"Never be bullied into silence. Never allow yourself to be made a victim. Accept no one's definition of your life; define yourself."
-Harvey Fierstein