i have everything any guy could want, i have celebrity friends, friends to powerful heirs, girls crawling over me, and i hate. people suck up to me, im strong, mentally and physically, sexy, and Respected, i have turned lesbians straight and guys gay. but why i dont know.

im sick of people sticking there tongues up my arse, offering me jobs, people asking me how i do it, guys hanging off my every word. i am not a pua as i have no canned lines, i follow no rules and i am truthful as much as i can be.

yet no matter how much i hate people and try to get rid of them they wont go, i have a second phone full of booty calls, models and dancers included. iv spent all nite texting one cause she is ment to be coming round tonite and as i get more annoyed i start to tell her how things really are...

so i sent this text...

'basically iv had this convo so many times before. i could fuck u bt i would be off with u after if i wasnt impressed. im arrogant, ignorant, manipulative, obnoxious, a liar, malicious, seductive and beautiful. im everything bad that is male'

and i get this back:

'i knew u were as soon as i got too know u luke but girls fall for it, i do not know why but we do and u get what u want in the end so be happy with it.'

no matter how hard i push against it i just get more attention. i know game like the back of my hand and know not to follow common sence, that is why i knew when i sent that text it would do me any harm and that i would still get laid.

it just all seems so pointless now tho. sex is nothing to me. its pointless, it just gets sti's even tho i use protection u still pick them up, or u get phone calls telling u that there pregnant. lucky i aint been there yet but my friends have.

i dont know wot u would call me, a venusian artist, a master pua or a natural, but all i know is the better i get the more bored i get, all i want in life is to be able to get outa work and ride on my motorbike in the sun and meet the lads and go for a chill. nothing more, nothing less. the pua lifestyle gets tedious, but i know non of u guys will belive me until u get here....

feel free to slate me.

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Surely you can say no to these women or just not text back etc. I think the lifestyle is manageable but you will have to just straight up cut communication with the people.

As for wanting to just chill with your mates and things I know what you mean there. There are certain clubs I cannot relax in but as I see it, it is a whole fuck load better than when I just used to get drunk and get no women.

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So dude... are you looking for advice, or did you want to just vent.. or..? I would say get a new hobby, set some goals or some shit. Dont you have a life goal youre working towards? Go to Africa, stop worrying so much about yourself and help less fortunate people if your so unfulfilled. I dont know what else to say. Maybe seek Buddha

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Make Moves

Swoop

Snap man,

i cant cut ties because each one has some thing which intrigues me, yet annoys me, constantly questioning and fighting me,

i just tell them at the end, stop trying to justify shagging me cause it will happen and after it will be one of yr fondest memories, and only a memory, yet they always want more.

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Gammbit

mostly to vent, i have goals which i have just found, i no longer keep my phone with me and i just put all my effort into my work to clear my head,

but can u say no to a girl that as soon as she opens the door yr jaw drops from sheer beauty.

this thing is a curse, no matter how much a hate i cant say no, im an addict

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Gammbit

Have you seen SPAM Begins and Fight Club?

Explore rock bottom.

I'll take your second phone off your hands for you?!

It's the breaking point. Meditation always worked for me.

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The hotter they are, the harder they fall....for me.

Now I am intrigued.

The way grass is always greener on the other side, I guess Gammbit's point makes sense. But while you are sitting there with your mobile in your hand and introspecting on intricacies of life, things look all the more different from where I am sitting. At present, I would gladly trade places with you. I'd rather be with a sheer beauty every night than Ms Five Fingers (if you ge tmy drift).

If you really think you have acheived all you can and this lifestyle is becoming boring, do something different.

Do what Smooth said, help those who are less fortunate. Heck, helps rAFC's if you must. Give me your location and I would gladly drop by to learn from someone who knows far more than I do.

Help those who are seemingly less fortunate...

I think you have a problem most people would like to have

stop ur whining,

yeah u have an aweosme life, or the ability to have it. ur just 2 weak 2 stand up for what u really need.

its funny how u post about how u r sick of ur pua life on a pua website.

cut it clean. yeah saying things like, "im bad 4 u" to girls... not good. u know they will love this shit with their self destructive behaviour. be a strong person and do what u should.

leave them better then u find em

anyways i think u should just grow up. vent to a friend. get a gf. find urself. im sure their r pua way better out there then u, and they seem to deal with it. laters

i know its harsh but sometimes the best lesson is the hardest 1

I do empathise with the OP. Of course there are a lot of people who have and will berate him for apparant arrogance, but let's take the matter by the scruff of the neck.

Although I can't claim to even have a fraction of the original poster's lifestyle, I did have an abundance of girls before Valentine's day and I had a similar feeling. I was sick of all the girls trying to do stuff with me on Valentines, I was sick of all the guys asking me for advice...hell, I practically got one of my friends his girl friend by telling him what to do every freakin step. It was disgusting. I was sick of thinking about girls and spending so much time with girls. So I sent a mass text to all the main girls involved basically telling them to fuck off.

Since, I have spent more time on other things worth doing in life. There is more to life than girls, and Neil Strauss' 'The Game' doesn't end like that for no reason. It all comes full circles. One girl can rule an AFC's life, and many girls can rule a PUA's life. Different means to the same end. It's an easy trap.

I also talk to girls differently. Rather than trying to 'take value' from them all the time, instead I offer value with no expectation of return. I sarge less now, but when I do, often my goal is not to get laid. It's just to have an interesting conversation. The sarge is the end, not the means to the end (fucking).

Don't let PU take over your life. And if you're gonna be the amazing and perfect alpha, you simply have to live with the consequences that come from it. If this is you then so be it. If it's not, try and be your real self even if people expect more from you. You have to give yourself permission to be the real you, your best self.

Now you've explored this area of life...
Time to move on.


No reason to keep doing what you obviously have mastered.

Take Chief's advice and explore the world.
Break completely with the life you have now,
or
Alter your perception.
Change how the world looks/seems to you.

Maybe explore something like Zen buddhism,
Stop using a phone,
Try altering different aspects of your current life to see what happens.


Make shit different.


OR
Continue doing what you're doing...and alter how you perceive it.
Do the 10 day positivity challenge.

Fuck around with people, hand them non-sequitur logic and such.
Pretend you've gone mad ?

Make shit happen.
Explore people.
Expand your understanding of them.

Have fun.

thinking about this you got what you thought you wanted but don't, think about what you want and make it happen. If you are half as driven as you come across as you will be able to do it.
Maybe hunt for a girl to be in a relationship with

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Firstly when i've read this, i thought, yeah, his life pisses he off, but now i think that you're the only one who can change it, by simply ignoring those chicks on your phone. What do you think? Your post was mainly about pua lifestyle, so get rid of it

First, I highly doubt that Gammbit is nothing more than a man trying to make a point. In other words, I think he's lying, making up a scenario for the sake of his his argument.

I think the endgame for any pua should be to fall in love, have kids and begin studying books on how to be a good husband & a good father. I believe having tons of promiscuous sex is a neccessary part of a guy's life, but I also believe that after you've fully experience the pua lifestyle you've gotta find love & family.

Besides that I think stuff like taking up an art (photography, painting, playing guitar etc), having some competitive sport (like amateur mixed martial art or adult basketball league), studying philosophy and politics, and making the world a better place (charity, mentoring kids) are all necessary for a complete life.



Writers like Stephen Covey provide great insight into having healthy long term relationships. This is his theory on the nature of trust:

"We all know what a financial bank account is. We make deposits into it and build up a reserve from which we make withdrawals when we need to. An Emotional Bank Account is a metaphor that describes the amount of trust that's been built up in a relationship. It's the feeling of safeness you have with another human being.

If I make deposits into an Emotional Bank Account with you through courtesy, kindness, honesty, and keeping my commitments to you, I build up a reserve. Your trust toward me becomes higher, and I can call upon that trust many times if I need to. I can even make mistakes and that trust level, that emotional reserve, will compensate for it. My communication may not be clear, but you'll get my meaning anyway. You won't make me "an offender for a word." When the trust account is high, communication is easy, instant, and effective.

But if I have a habit of showing discourtesy, disrespect, cutting you off, overreacting, ignoring you, becoming arbitrary, betraying your trust, threatening you, or playing a little tin god in your life, eventually my Emotionally Bank Account is overdrawn. The trust level gets very low. Then what flexibility do I have?

None. I'm walking on mine fields. I have to be very careful of everything I say. I measure every word. It's tension city, memo haven. It's protecting my backside, politicking. And many organizations are filled with it. Many families are filled with it. Many marriages are filled with it.

If a large reserve of trust is not sustained by continuing deposits, a marriage will deteriorate. Instead of rich, spontaneous understanding and communication, the situation becomes one of accommodation, where two people simply attempt to live independent life-styles in a fairly respectful and tolerant way. The relationship may further deteriorate to one of hostility and defensiveness. The "fight or flight" response creates verbal battles, slammed doors, refusal to talk, emotional withdraw and self-pity. It may end up in cold war at home, sustained only by children, sex, social pressure, or image protection. Or it may end up in open warfare in the courts, where bitter ego decimating legal battles can be carried on for years as people endlessly confess the sins of a former spouse.

And this is in (what should be) the most intimate, the most potentially rich, joyful, satisfying and productive relationship between two people on this Earth—marriage. The P/PC lighthouse is there; we can either break ourselves against it or we can use it as a guiding light.

Our most constant relationship require our most constant deposits. With continuing expectations, old deposits evaporate. If you suddenly run into an old high school friend you haven't seen for years, you can pick up right where you left off because the earlier deposits are still there. But your accounts with the people you interact with on a regular basis require more constant investment. There are sometimes automatic withdrawals in your daily interactions or in their perception of you that you don't even know about."

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