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Alright sat night I met a hb9 cougar and number closed perfectly. While we were in set she said she had a son in college but didnt want to tell me how old he was at first. She then told me he is the same exact age as myself (25). I have followed up with her and the convo and rapport building has been great. My only issue I can see is that if I try to make plans or kiss close she might say its weird because I am her son's same age. How am I gonna get over this age difference thing in her head?
You have to qualify that age is just a number, and also convey that you've had older girlfriends as well. This will help her feel more comfortable with the idea, but there is nothing you can really do about her son's age. She knows it won't be a 'realationship' and you can convey that too, it's just for 'fun' or sex. Keeping it sexual keeps it away from being too friendly.
Good luck on this one but if you ask her too many more times I'd probably give it up.