| Recently broke up with girl who was a friend. we did everything a couple would do, just didn't have a title, and i was sleeping with another girl on the side.
Girl on the side lives at home, can't go out very often, going to school, great girl on the side.
Now I'm just wondering where am I going to meet a new girlfriend. I've been to 18 and over clubs and those girls are all easy to talk to number close, k close but meeting up with them later on has never happened. I should have built more comfort i know this now.
Now that I'm 21 I've been going to more real night clubs, girls in heels sexy dress and just got her nails done, and hair. Cover is $30 for these clubs, drinks are $10+ My friend and I get on the guestlist though ahead of time.
Now starting a convo with these girls is much much more difficult. One of my favorite lines that has never failed me. "So show me a guy in here that you think is cute, or looks interesting" I grab her by the hand "com'on there's got be one guy in here I can introduce to you" And usually that gives me some talk time with them to get their number and talk to them.
I tried this once and the girl said "ok whatever, thanks i can find my own guy"
Another girl tried talking to me, but it was way too loud, and outside is just as loud.
So nightclubs have some good: Girls are there looking for a guy, easy place to just walk up and talk to people, but can't hear them, or have a decent convo. Plus a girl who goes to the club might not be gf material.
I really clicked well with my new hair stylist, but the second trip I found out she was engaged.
There is this awesome cashier at the grocery store but she has a bf.
Then I went to the strip club with my friends after the clubs, we had free passes so why not. We were all dressed up, but I had spent all my cash on drinks $20 and I wasn't going to spend more on cock teases. So we were just sitting there all bullshitting, I managed to offend 8 of the strippers and one who just started would not leave me alone. I told her I didn't have any money, and would never pay a girl to arouse me.
She said she'll do it for free, so she gave me a free lap dance. I told her I'm just looking for friendship right now and she's crossing the boundaries. She ate that up and would not leave me alone. I enjoyed her company and she told me her real name and when I could meet her again. Well I was going out the next night, but she told me she worked at denny's from 11-3am and she could give me her number then since she's not allowed to have any relations with customers at the strip club. Well I was trashed the next night and went to a rave, I wanted to see her but didn't have time.
I'm lost what to do, I want to be friends with my hairstylist but she's engaged, she's pretty perfect though, I get along with her so well. And she's so excited when she sees me.
I'm working on being friends with this hb9 I work with so I can use her as a pivot later on. We've been to the club once and had fun, but we're not at the stage where I can call her up and get coffee later. Plus she's 2 years older than me.
I tried pof, met a 22 year old mom, hb6 we had sex the first night, I left my sweatershirt there by accident, had to come back the next day, and it happened again. Sex was horrible, and what a horrible position being a 22 year old mom with no college.
I just dunno what to do...halp
Random Edit: I was watching Sex in the city a few nights ago, and one of the bitches on there said "guys can have the best sex when they hate a girl" I cannot have an orgasm unless I really care about the girl and she cares about me. And I've had sex with 23 different girls and only had orgasms with 2 of them. Wanted to post this becuase of the thread "your an idiot if you want a gf" _________________ http://www.pickupreport.com/
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