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| Hopeless Romantic | PostPosted: Thu Mar 12, 2009 10:48 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Addict | Joined: Wed Jan 23, 2008 6:14 pm Posts: 292 | | First off, I want to say thanks to whoever made it now so that there is a popup when you try to post in a thread thats over three weeks old. I think that's awesome and will stop a lot of people from reviving old threads.
Anwyay, onto my question...
I was reading an old thread (hence the beginning) and they were talking about texting. They said that when you text you have three options
1. Text back right away
2. Text back the same amount of time it took them to text you
3. Text back at your convenience
He then said that option 2 might look a little funny. I noticed that I tend to do this, I wait till the same amount of time has passed and then text back. Sometimes I forget and text back a little later. Anyway, my question is should I change up when I text a girl. Or is option 2 still a good way to go?
I know calling is always better, but I like having text conversations as well. _________________ Men fall in love with their eyes. Women fall in love with their ears.
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| Walt | PostPosted: Thu Mar 12, 2009 10:59 pm | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum |  | Joined: Mon Jun 16, 2008 9:51 am Posts: 156 Location: London | | Always texting back straight away could give the impression you drop everything for the girl or you don't really get up to much.
Waiting to send a reply is really just covering up this first point.
Inner game wise don't always be so hasty, fill your time with activities and you will naturally reply when you're free and have more to talk about as you've been busy.
Basically you maybe over-thinking the finer details. I'd work on the text itself, if its funny/interesting/engaging/appealing who cares how quick you reply.
Just don't always be the one to initiate/have the final say/ or always text back right away. So I'd opt for option 3, text back naturally. But you can send a quick reply and say you're off out etc... DHV.
If arranging a Day 2 be sure to call or more chance she'll flake. Perhaps set it up through a text if you are more comfortable with that, then have a quick call to confirm location/timings etc/what you want to get up to.
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