Cocky and Funny is everywhere. I normally do fine with my own humour because it gets the desired reactions, but as I did a bit more studying over the past few days, I'm now trying to figure out the mechanics of C&F.

I know there is an ebook on it, but I don't have it, so I'm going to leave you guys with two questions. What are some practical C&F lines? and If I wanted to make my own C&F lines, what requirements would the line need to meet?

Thanks.

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I know this is not the answer you are looking for, but being spontaneous will suit you much better than having 3 lines in your head like the Terminator and hoping you guess the right response.

If a girl says something playful, she wants you to say something playful back.

If a girl is standoffish, sometimes they want you to say something bold. If you say you are beautiful, pretty, etc. they usually do not want the easy compliment, they want cocky confidence.

If a girl says nothing. or gives one word answers, I limit myself to 3 more questions and move on if she does not have a conversation with me.

If she is alone, try to get her to talk about herself and LISTEN. I know you have a million war stories, but save em for the guys. If a chick can talk to you and be comfortable, you can win her over without a monster dialogue.

If she is with friends, you have to feel out the group. If it is girls night out, you have a 30 second commercial to get a number or conversation, if that.

If she is with friends and you notice they are all over the place and coming back to a central table, then they are on the hunt, too.

It will serve you best to understand your situation and the mood before you set parameters around the technique.

Cocky and funny isnt about lines because the possibiliy for having a C & F line for any response is unwieldly. Instead C & F is a mindset.

Here are some examples to think about though:

David DeAngelo uses this for personals:
I was looking through all these ads here on the internet thinking to myself
"Look at all the poor, desperate, lonely women..." and then I saw your ad and thought to myself "Hey, here's a poor, desperate, lonely woman that's actually CUTE..." so I thought I'd write and see if you're as interesting on the inside as you are in this picture..

When walking up to a girl at a party:
Hi I realize that youre shy and that guys usually pay you no attention so I felt bad and decided to give you some attention.

C&F to me its like you have to be high {natural high} or have a sense of humor. Most things that people say could be funny if you look at it that way. So when a girl is talking Just dont take her serious and make jokes about what she is... saying or what, she saying. NEGs

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There are lots of ways to use the cocky and funny approach in life.... The most common ones I use are....

1. When she does something she should apologize for say "I might forgive you and point to your neck" Then right when she goes into the kiss... Reject the kiss... "Say I meant for an apology pointing to your ear"

2. Ask a girl where she lives.... If she says some town youve never heard of say.... " Are their dirt roads and tractors there?"

3. If she says something like my hair,nails,dress, etc looks like hell today say.... "I didnt want to say anything"

4. She asks if your seeing other women say.... "No other men....."

5. Do you love me? "Of course.... As a friend"

Streetwisekeen is very right. CnF shouldn't be canned lines you've memorized. CnF lines are really easy to come up with, if you have the right mindset to produce them. For ex. "I came to this gym to work out, not get checked out, O.K. missy"(say sarcastic), Its cocky because you insinuate she is checking you out and funny because it was totally unexpected and surprising. So think of cocky shit to say and than follow it up with something surprising.

C then F =
"My car is really nice, but your ass to big to fit in a Corvette"

F then C =
""If I wasn't on the man rag right now, I'd let you come over tonight."

Now that you have the formula it should be no problem no matter where you are at to do this. The real key to it all, is she has to know you are totally joking when you say whatever ridiculous stuff comes out of your mouth.

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