So I just made a cup of coffee, bought a pack of smokes, and I have an essay to write--but, you know those songs that you hear and are anchored to past events..like, for example: good memories of your ex-girlfriend? Yeah, well one of those just came up on my i-Tunes so I just had to write a post.
Basically just a few things I've been working on in-field and with my game.

For starts I'm starting to realize that being alpha isn't always being the loud, high-energy AMOG'ing douchebag in the club. I think when you put up a front like that it can really destroy any hopes of really connecting with a girl on a more emotional level. Remember, a deeper emotional connection can also allow a better direction towards a sexual frame. Now Chief will most likely disagree with me on this hah, but he had a point, you have to be really careful about this or else you get girls whipped and whiny. For example I'm getting tired of having a whipped girlfriend that complains about everything. Just when I thought I did everything right...shucks.

It's also important to just be yourself, man it blows slutty nutsacks that I had to figure this out 2 years after I started. Really it all just boils back to who you were before you even started pick-up. You're just a more confident, more socially equipped guy when it comes to girls or for you tree-hugging PUA's, LIFE.

OOOOOooo. And my favorite one to talk about...approach anxiety. I really didn't want to be the one to say this but the more you do it, the easier it gets. It's like your first retail job, you get all jittery with the customer but as time goes on you spit it out like fire. Hobbit would have a better rap metaphor for that sentence. Yeah, that simple. Grow a pair.

You are who you want to be. Just remember that. And the more you work on being who you want to be, the better your chances are of female attention AKA vaginal sex. If you want to come off as a haughty prick that tries to DHV everything and follow pick-up through the books, cool. But the biggest DHV of them all is being confident and honest with yourself, whatever it is. It's fucking endearing to be confident in your insecurities. Just ask your mom. or Zip's.

O. and one last thing. Learn Gunwitch.

Payce.

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I'd like to add to this... Be who you want to be without restraint.

Feel horny? Tell the girl she makes you hot, and that it's all her fault. You'll have a lot better results than trying to stick to the A1, A2, A3, C1, C2, C3, S1, S2, S3 method.

Don't be afraid to give a girl a genuine compliment. Though I think you should check yourself so you aren't doing it as some form of supplication.

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Haha nice. Well I've always been a fan of speaking through actions more than words, so lets say if I was to be horny or attracted to this girl, you would direct the interactions into something more sexual, raising the emotional bars and lowering the logical. Well, that depends on what you want but back to my point

If you're feeling horny, why not just kiss her? or hold her hand? What's there to loose except the feeling of regret for not trying.

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Of course kissing is a good way to show her that you're interested in her in a sexual way!!!



I was thinking along the lines of opening at the time. I've seen the kiss-opener video... I lol'ed.

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