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PostPosted: Tue Feb 24, 2009 5:16 am 
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Ok my game has been improving over the past few months greatly... I have lots of confidence and hardly any AA anymore.

Quick snapshot: 80% of my game is run on campus (classes mostly) and I am gettingevery number I have asked for (only like 5 or 6 but still, i'm highly selective in my classes and go for the HB8+ more than anything). With the rest of my game being practiced just at parties until i'm 21 (bars/clubs)

There is this girl (very cute) that definitely has a crush on me. Her body language is IOI left and right in classes. I catch her staring at me from all the way across the room over her friends shoulder WHILE she is talking to her friend. I opened her a couple weeks ago, and after 2 class periods I had her phone number. The next night I took her to this party, nothing happened but had a good time (we just met!). I guess we can say... we have a good connection

Problem: she just got back into a relationship with her boyfriend. They were broken up for a weekish or something, and I missed that window of opportunity (i didn't know she was single until after the fact). I have a strong gut feeling that they aren't even close. I had her come with me to a party WHILE she was "DATING" her boyfriend.

Anyway, what do to? I plan on just continue escalating, and hanging out on weekends and see what happens and if she will even say "no I have a boyfriend".......... she hasn't mentioned him ONCE to me !
(i have a couple friends who are her friends as well, this is how I know this info)

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PostPosted: Tue Feb 24, 2009 6:05 am 
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Should be easy to destroy with the boyfriend destroyers--you should be able to find it easily if you just search/look around.

You might be a rebound guy, but if you're ok with that, go ahead. There is a slight chance if you aren't clear enough with your intentions you could end up in the friends zone so be clear with her.


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meh, you don't need a 'boyfriend destroyer.'

As far as I am concerned, unless the relationship is super strong and long-term, the fact that someone is 'dating' someone in college does not really mean shit. Honestly, you should NEVER assume that a girl having a boyfriend is a deal-breaker. Always assume it is on until she tells you explicitly that it isn't. Her saying "I have a boyfriend doesn't count," this can be interpreted many ways. Go 'till she says "no" (then back up and go again :wink: ).

Ignore the fact that she isn't single. If she brings it up dismiss it immediately and change the subject. Girls in general are always looking for the bigger, better deal; especially college girls who are super fickle. It sounds like she wants you, don't let a little bump like her having a boyfriend stop you from giving her what she wants.

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Put a shirt on! Its great you work out, wont get you a date here tho.

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PostPosted: Wed Feb 25, 2009 1:32 pm 
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When she brings up her boyfriend you really only have tow options in my opinion and those are.

1. Completely ignore the fact that she has a boyfriend and change the subject (I like the do you like dinosaurs convo change)

2.

Her: I have a boyfriend

You: Yeah so about that I always wondered....whats it like being in a perfect relationship?

Her: Psh yeah right/Omg it's so not perfect/whatever else she could say negative about her relationship.

When using number 2 it eliminates the need for you to bad mouth the prick because she will do it on her own. Remember don't stick up for the guy just make her think about everything wrong with her relationship and how unperfect he is without actually saying those direct lines to her.

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PostPosted: Wed Feb 25, 2009 4:41 pm 
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Thanks for the replies :D

It's funny how one time in class, this one guy asked her "was that your boyfriend in the elevator?" when I was next to her talking to someone else, and I could feel her sudden energy and she did a very slight nod to him at the corner of my eye.

I will continue escalating!

As for the picture, I hate saying "i'm a good looking guy who has 'ok' game", and I don't want to just put a face pic up.... maintaining a tiny bit of anonomitity (sp). I like proof.

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