I was just pondering some thoughts in my head and thought I'd share.

I make a list of the things I want out of a relationship, from having a stable non smoking 5'6-5'8 fun white girl toa gorgeous smile eyes and hair.

And it's so much easier if I think a girl is interesting, the game comes out flawlessly.

With a girl that I thought was interesting then lights up a cigarette, I just walk away, and it makes going after the good ones so much easier, because when you go after the girls you don't really like in the back of your mind you have a limiting belief.

Now I think this all goes out the door when a guy challenges you to pick up a specific girl at a bar or in a retail store, then it becomes a game.

Not settling has been the best thing I have done in my life.

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I totally agree for along time I felt like I needed to be approaching women to gain experience. my brother argued it was all experience etc which to a degree is true but it is experience in something you don't need, like having a fight with a boxer if you do karate.
It started to totally destroy my inner game as well because I would go up to women I wasn't interested in and try and feign some form of interest, knowing the best possible outcome is me ending up in bed with a girl I'm not attracted too. So Im sure I would subconsciously sabotage my game and come across poorly. However if I am attracted to a girl it is not game everything flows, these are the times a shit test comes up I deal with it perfectly and then afterwards am like wait a minute that was a shit test.

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good post

i must admit, on some nights i go only for girls that fascinate me... gorgeous, non smoking, funny, intelligent, 5'6"-5'10"... but on other nights (especially if i've been drinking) then i just game for the sake of getting some sort of a close to impress my buddies rather than to build a meaningful relationship with someone i'm interested in.

i always feel a greater sense of accomplishment when i've actually met someone i'm interested in and it really helps boost my game (until i'm drunk and gaming anything with legs again)

You're right, hot women (HB8 or above) are far more easier to game, approach as they realise they have high reproductive value. They are not as hung up about guys approaching as they have all the options they need, so will give you the time of day.

In fact game WILL NOT WORK on girls who are HB7 or less, simply because they instinctively know their own value by age 18-20. By gaming a HB7 like shes a HB10 you are showing low understanding of a woman's value and she will not respect you for it.

True though it is HBs in terms of physical appearance is not enough. I look for emotional warmth and stability, ambition, drive and motivation and liability.

I once turned down a HB9 stripper as (I'm not being misogynistic here) her emotional expression was like a dead fish on a chopping block, she did coke and had a creepy dark and twisted undertone to her.

If I ever got her pregnant would she ever be a good mother to my kids?
At the end of the day that is real value.