| sounds to me like you are going thru a minor depression, which has nothing really to do with how hot your game is.
Why do you feel like you have no friends? Either you have them, or you dont. Lots of times, people "feel" like they don't, because the friends they do have aren't going out of their way to call them up and hook up all the time. Well I will break it to you. Your friends have lives as well, and just because you are their friend, doesn't mean you are at the center of their life.
If you feel like you are being "left out" somewhat, it is entirely up to you to get yourself included. Call them up. Go out of your way to hook up. Start parties yourself. Doing this will not only result in you getting feelings of acceptance from your friends, but it will also end with you being thought of more often, so you do start getting called up in reciprocation. Thats just how people work. Sit around in your basement moping to yourself, and that is exactly where you will stay. As well, there is a pretty high chance that your feelings are shared to one extent or another by at least some of your other friends, so by doing this, you are helping them out as well.
Your feelings of social inadequacy will evaporate once you take care of the friends issue.
And it is important to do this. Inner game, your frame, your internal happiness level, this is what your entire game rests upon. It is the very foundation of whether or not you will score, so it is of profound importance that you clear this shit up with yourself first. If you dont, even if you score some hot chick one night, you will ultimately feel worse about yourself because of her.
Remember, its not about the girls we bed, its about how happy we are about ourselves while doing it.
|