Ok first of all, I'm not into having unprotected sex with strangers... or even with chicks that I am not getting really serious with. So that's my disclaimer.

Anyway, I'm having a real problem. I cant for the life of me get a full erection with a condom on. Its a mix of it cutting off my circulation and not being able to feel anything. Its happened in the past, if I'm lucky, the whole thing gets done with about a 75% hard-on, and sometimes I get so mentally frustrated with the whole thing, I lose the whole erection and have to blame it on something. (Alcohol, having to piss, something on my mind, etc.) Basically it is killing my overall confidence. Its tough enough for me trying to get into this pickup thing, but knowing that all I have is mediocre, semi-hard sex in front me, makes it almost not even worth it.

Basically any tips would be great. I'm not very sensitive at all. I have very good control and I can "finish" whenever I choose without a condom. That was great with my ex, but it wont do me much good if I can't even get the show started with a rubber. I would prefer stopping short of something like Viagra. I'm scared if I started that, I would always need it.

(And I have tried all of the "thinnest" brands. Nothing seems to work.)

I used to kind of have that problem too. I fixed it by starting to buy Magnums. They won't squeeze the shaft of your cock like a deathgrip getting unrolled on your shit. I never thought to get those kind until I broke other ones when I actually was hard and my old GF told me to. Not bragging but just trying to help....

You might seriously want to do exercises with your PC muscle in order to be able to help maintain longer. I wouldn't get into medicine just yet but it never hurts to talk to a doctor.

The other thing you could do is possibly try a c-ck ring. This helps some guys by keeping the blood in your d-ck and of course also some vibrate and are stimulating to both men and women. I'm not a sex-pert but these are a few quick things I Know you can do.

Another thing would be have the girl put the condom on you. She can even use her mouth if she's brave enough, LOL. Make the act of putting it on more sexual. It seems like you're mentally detaching yourself from the act of sex when you go to put it on. It's easy to do.

Most of this is mental, trust me.

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i had this problem, regular sized condoms hurt like a mother fucker and it was cutting the circulation off my dick. you, like me, just probably have an above average girth. get some larges. dont worry about length i only got an average length- just over 6 inches and it was never a problem. like i said its about girth

Foreplay.

And have her put the condom on you. Make it part of the foreplay so you don't lose your mindset.

I was with a girl once who I swear was a hooker in another life... she got it on me and me in her without me even knowing she pulled one out of the wrapper.

Yeh i've kinda got the same problem, feel like the condom is cutting my blood flow off, also I can't really feel that much and sometimes start to lose the hard on mid session and it's a real mind job... i'm constantly thinking about "don't lose it, don't lose it" which obviously is taking my mind set away from how good the sex is! it's pissing me off, I've never not used a condom so I'm hoping thats the issue.

It's not all the time like, usually when i've been drinking aswell lol

2nd the big condom thing.

If you can rock it without a condom, then try the xx and the xxx.

Also . . . try a little lube on your pecker prior to rolling the condom down.

Jerk off with condoms on. It's a known fact that your penis builds up a style that it gets uses to. If you jerk off with condoms on your penis will normalize to it.

I know it sounds odd but it will work.

Kasabi's nailed the other big point here..

ALWAYS put some lube on your cock before putting the condom on. Not too much, you dont want the fucker to slip right off, but just a bit... it will let your cock slide slightly against the latex, will will magnify sensations so that it _almost_ feels like you dont have one on. As well, it reduces friction and drastically cuts down on condom rupture. Ever bust a condom right when you cum? It sucks...