It's a Saturday afternoon

5:16 pm in my place and it's a good day

my beautiful girlfriend lays next to me as I write this, she's sleeping and I just can't wake her up, she looks beautiful sleeping,

so, I have decided to write a post that will help you guys (for the most of you) to UNDERSTAND why attraction is born and why attraction dies.

It's more theory than practice, so if you don't like theory (which is bad) then don't read

So, guys have asked me

how do I know when she's attracted to me?
How do I know if she' still attracted to me?
Is there a way for girls to know how attracted they are to me?

Nod if you have asked someone else or yourself this question before

did you nod? cool

Now, the answer to these questions relies on one word, COMPLIANCE

Compliance is how much did she do for you, meaning how much of an effort she made in order to meet your standards

(and yes XFman i did search this , just kidding bro)

Why is Compliance important?

Because once she's done a decision like giving you her number/going out on a date with you/kissing you/or having sex with you she won't regret, this is because she will look back to find a reason to WHY she did these things for you

For example

A girl kisses you

Later on she will think to why she kissed you, and the reason why she did it is probably because she found a challenge in you and had to WORK HARD her way up to you.

So, she will rely on that HARD WORK she did for you and say "yea, thats why i did it, so no regrets"

Get it?

The more compliance you have with a girl, the more she will do for you

and the less she will regret doing these things

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Now, it's important to keep Compliance alive, keeping it at the same level or higher, but NOT lower

Once compliance starts dying out, attraction will die out too

so here are the tips:

keep her working,

if you she starts to do less things for you, back off a lil and let her miss you

reward her when she does something for you but not too much

Apply it

and hope this cleared your head now

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I would say this draws a lot on cat string theory here, but it is all true. But i would like to point out that its also hold the idea that you should also make sure to give a girl a reason for everything, and to make yourself appear to be a challenge to her therefore you become something worth having. I am curious as to why HER compliance is key though, wouldn't it be YOUR compliance to her advances and her gifts?

No

Let me explain this a lil deeper, first of all keep in mind that compliance is an extensive topic

so extensive that I believe that, if any of you could master it, you could prolly do very decent with women

What i just wrote should be read more than just once, so if you read it once, read it again, you'll see that you find more things as you read it

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The reason why HER compliance is the KEY one is because you want HER to work her way up to YOU

When we talk about YOUR compliance, we are talking about the efforts that YOU made to meet her standards, not the other way around.

The key is this:

"HER compliance should always be going up, and ALWAYS slightly higher than yours"

Examples:

She buys you clothes, you reward her by doing something special for her, but less expensive than what she did for you

DO NOT FALL INTO THE MISTAKE OF GIVING MORE COMPLIANCE TO HER, THAN SHE GIVES TO YOU

Never ever never

Once you do this, attraction will start dying out

Trust me bud

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another great post. props man. thanks for all your help Romeo appreciate it

Corleon,

You need to get your basics down firsts

That's something that takes more work than just talking for a couple of minutes, if you know what i mean

if you want extensive coaching, let me know and we can talk about it

but once youre in, you cant say no

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Love the post. to me, it all comes down to worth and value that she may or may not have for you. The more she does for you. the least willing she would eventually be to just pull out or cut and run. How do I know? 'Cause I was once an AFC(lol) and I dated this girl for about 3 months and I did everything for her which in turned made me more attached to her. Thus, the more she does for you, same effect apply.

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