| I'm not one to make a post about any one specific girl because it takes forever to include the necessary information. But, well, I could really use some insight on this one. So I appreciate that you've taken the time to read this sucker and give me your feedback in advance. -Minor
Story
I meet this beautiful girl at a club a few weeks back. Without getting too into detail, this was the best game I've ever played. Every DHV spike I can think of was on display and on a massive level, including heavy bits of pre-selection a and jealousy plot lines. We ended up spending about 2-3 hours together at the club till it closed - yes, from the start I really enjoyed her. Looks and personality.
Well, some back and forth txting the next few days in which she invited me out but I couldn't go. Finally, we worked out that I'd hang with her on the upcomming tuesday, the night before she left to another country. We stayed up till 4 or 5am, and I enjoyed every second of it, and so did she. I got a hand job and some fingering action went down.
But then she was gone for two weeks or so. Not much communicatino while she was over seas, though when she returned, we resumed txt communication and she openly texted me over the weekends informing me of where she was, and how she wanted to hang out.
Finally, the proceeding wednesday we chat, and then chat again later in the evening and have one of those "serious" till 3am chats. I set up a date for friday. The night comes, and I can tell I'm slighly off my game - I can't lie, I like this one and it throws me off a little. But nevertheless all was well and we went to dinner, plenty of laughing, her reinitiating the convo, etc. Now, she had told me earlier in the day that she couldn't stay out too late that night. Given that we hung out till 4am or so the previous occasion, I figured that meant she could hang out till 2 or so. Well, after dinner she suggested she had to go home. It was about 10:30. I asked what her bed time was to which she responded 12:00am. (I'm leaving out the reason she had to go home because its both legitimate and irrelevant) So I figured, what they hey, I'm gonna drop her off and make more of a night out of it. She had said she didn't mind me going out after we hung out ealier in the day (probably should have been a hint that she didn't imply her bedtime was 2am) so I wasn't being rude. I made plans with a buddy on the ride back to her place, and mocked her for it a bit. Well played I felt. I texted her "good night sweetie" a bit after her proposed bed time and she responded suggesting she wanted to hang out again soon.
Truth be told, I wanted to hang out with her the next day. I could go to a club and hook up with another girl, or I could have called a miriad of other girls, but I wanted this one. I wouldn't go as far as to call it one-itis because I have reason to like this one and am seeing plenty of other girls (in fact have a date with the girl I met last sat at the club ((the club I attended instead of hanging out with this girl)) this upcomming sat.) But nevertheless I wanted to hang out with her so I texted her the next day suggesting that I just got her txt form teh night before and that "her wish might come true if she's good (and by good I mean bad)." This was somewhat of a probing text to see if she wanted to hang out that evening. She responded something along the lines of "i'll try my hardest!" I decided to inject a sexual frame to which I responded "What do u mean by HARDest?" to which she close-endedly responded: "when i figure out i'll let u know!"
Aright, thats the end of the story. So no problem, right? Well, heres the thing:
Her attributes
I've never met a girl who conciously realizes that she likes guys she can't have. Here are some quotes:
One night I was giving her a story about two people who met at the beach (obviously representing me and her) and I wouldn't tell her why the guy looked at her the way he did. After I had my orgasm, she continued to beg for the rest of the story to which I inquired why she didn't want her orgasm instead. To that came this amazing quote: "Orgasms are easy. getting the end of your story is hard. I want the hard thing" or something like that
Another funny quote: "All my ex boyfriends saw an inperfection in me that made me keep on it"
And the one that baffled me: On the original night we hung out, while she was in my arms only a few minutes before I left her apartment, after everything had gone well and I was really into her she goes: "So is this a one time thing?"
Nice girl, who REALLY wants what she can't have, with an undertone of sadness. Hmm.
The now
My qualm is this: I'd love to call her this week, chat, and set up a date for this weekend. However, something instinctively tells me not to. She not only ended the date early (though not maliciously) but didn't take the bait of my txt messages. Generally, no big deal. However, when dealing with a girl who is hyper sensative to guys just out of her reach, I wonder what I should do. I'm considering not even talking to her through out the remainder of this week and the weekend and seeing if she, again, txts me openly over the weekend. At the same time, I know theres a possibility she may be leaving the country some time soon so time may be of the essence.
And that is where bow I my head in requesting advice. Guys, I know a lot of folk say "that one special girl" and all that bs... but frankly, this one has caught my attention and the combination of beauty and a perosonality that fits my style its dificult to come about.
Please, any advice, any comments, all apprecaite.
A Minor situation
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