| Now, i wasn't sure of where to post this.... but i'd like to ask you guys, have you ever been cheated on?
I ask this because, I read alotta the posts about:
"I've known this girl for a while, but she has a boyfriend... what do i do?"
"so she says that she has a bf, what do i do"
etc,etc.
I understand that some people, use the game to get the girl that they want, even if she does have a boyfriend and that some guys would steal the girl from right under the other guy's nose. Now being someone that has been cheated on, I feel quite awkward when i'm gaming a girl, and find out that she has a boyfriend. eg. when you open a set, and there's a male in the set, and you find out the male's the boyfriend. (just in case someone quotes "The Game". I know you politely back off, when you find out it's a serious thing).
This thought had only come into my mind, when i read Kino's post, courtesy of meth. I completely understand the reply's, of "everyone to their own". I appreciate that, everyone will use the knowledge they aquire in here, and in other places, and will utilise it to what ever way they see fit. However, i'm asking you guys, if you've ever been cheated on because, I'd like to know if you feel comfortable seducing someone, that has a boyfriend?
If it isn't obvious already, with me, no. Only because I don't want to put someone through what I've experienced when I was cheated on. Long story in short, it was a serious relationship and got cheated on, and as a result thought it was my fault. I now know, it's not, however some people may find it hard to recover. _________________ Experience is the teacher of all things - Julius Caesar
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