Slightly misleading perhaps, because it was me that was #closed.

I was in the club last night, I wasn't sarging so I was drunk. This girl, I'd say about a HB7, approached and opened me. I have no idea what she was saying because, as I said, I was drunk and the music was very loud, but I somehow managed to hold up my end of the conversation.

So eventually she asks me for my number and puts hers in my phone. A few minutes later (I'd gone out to smoke and come back in) she came and sat by me and started talking again.

I was just about to go for the K-close - I was about to lean in, when she said 'by the way, this is my husband' and points to the guy I hadn't seen sit down. I swerved my lean (so to speak) and leaned towards him to shake his hand saying something along the lines of 'Oh, hey man, how you doing? I was just gonna ask how you two knew each other, I guess now I know,'.

They left a minute later and my mate, who had seen the entire thing, came over with a quizzical look. "That's her husband!" I told him, and we both burst out laughing.

Heh.

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Hey, not bad work given that you must have done it somewhat natural because you weren't sarging. Had you talked to other girls? What were you doing at she approached?

With that being said, and I could be wrong, but I sense a bit of ego fulfillment out of the whole thing (and thus your post and the "heh" the end). Your game will grow exponentially if you do NOT get ego validation from women.

You realize there are a LOT of couples out there who swing? And its not just folks looking for the ffm threesome, either. If you bartend anywhere with slightly older folks (30's and 40's), you will get this alot. At least, it is common in Denmark and Germany.

Believe me, there's very little that can boost my ego. Kinda like there gets a point where helium won't make a balloon float any higher. I just thought it was funny because the "this is my husband" line kind of knocked me for six.

But yes, actually, there were about a dozen girls coming to talk to me (mainly mates, only two or three were hot and only one of them I'm actually sarging) and a few guys seeking validation from me.

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