Ok so what do you do when you go to a club to meet a girl.
You arrive, she is there with a lot of her friends, she is somewhat drunk and running round like crazy?

I tried to isolate her and did for 5 mins but it was useless cause she kept worrying about her friends!

I eventually just said I'm outta here, but its not like it left an impression cause she was so preoccupied with her friends.

So whats the move in that situation. Note - club was really loud so very hard to talk also.

Sounds to me you like you hit on the "parent" for the night. Group of friends all go out and 1 of them stays sober enough to know wtf is going on and its their job to make sure that the group is safe and dont do something stupid.

In that situation you would be best to get a number and k-close and move on until either another day or when her friends arnt an issue (they have gone home or some1 else is looking after them).
Madals

Get drunk too.

She claimed she was dunk but she was still acting the parent for sure!

This girl lives out of town about 2hrs away. I have already been on one date with her when I was up her way a couple weeks ago. Kissed her after dinner and we have just been msging back and fourth since. But it was weird last night she didn't want to kiss me properly... maybe cause all her friends were round.

I kinda feel like I played the situation a bit bad, cause I couldn't capture her focus to run any game or get any connection from her... so when I left I felt like I left a bit needy cause I tried but to no avail.

This is second time now I have seen her out with her friends (first time was when I got her number) and she/they were nuts then also. They all just run around like crazy... it's so funny. Kinda like puppies all chasing each other around... lol

I think just leave her for a couple days and see if she wants to go out thursday... she mentioned she had it off and I doubt she will remember telling me that...

My advice to everyone and myself for next time is just pick up other girls at the club!

How old are your friends?

How many times do you think they've gone out and gotten shit faced without you?

They're still around aren't they?

Are you their mommy? Srsly? I don't need a mommy. Go find your friends. I'm sure they need a mom to look after them. While you're at it, send one of the drunk cute ones my way. I'll help look after her for you.



(K, maybe not the last line. )

Comes off a little bold... maybe too much so, but that's what I'd say.