Ok, I'm just gonna outright say this will probably be shittly laid out and be a ramble but fuckit.

I have noticed recently that I like women I find "unattractive" or less attractive. To the point of turning down a rich 8 who I had loads in common with for a less attractive girl who I barely know if I like.
The quality of girl I am getting is increasing almost on a monthly basis and yet I don't seem to find the girls I know are attractive attractive.

I tried to get to the bottom of this by breaking down what attractive is and why I am attracted to women, hell I made a list of attractive qualities and even compiled a file with about 30 girls I find attractive and compared physical traits.

And yet, I get nervous around unattractive women, more-so than gorgeous women. All I can seem to pin it down to is limiting beliefs, for example a "I couldn't get a gorgeous girl so it doesn't matter if I fail but she's in my league I best not screw it up", which is ridiculous I have been getting high quality women . bleurgh no idea what's going on I hope someone a little more eloquent is having the same experience.
If you got this far congrats, any ideas? xx

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So... are you finding that the most attractive girls aren't offering more than good looks? If that's a yes, then I think that would help explain what's going on. If not, I'm too drunk at the moment to to give a coherent answer.

Kinda, with a lot of girls it is but then every so often I find one that offers almost everything except like this one thing I can't put my finger on. COuld call it the x-factor I dunno, its the only element of an attractive woman I can't put my finger on.

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