Prologue:
I really felt like I should have written more, but I tend to make things way to long, and the people won't read it. So for this one, I'm cutting it down, in hopes that people will actually read it in its entirety. That said, I do my best to split it up, use proper grammar, and make it overall readable. Onward and forward to victory.
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So there's a couple reasons I'm going to write this up. The first was the obvious one. People want answers to their questions, and this is a very common situation here. The second didn't hit me until after I began thinking of what I was going to write. This is a great reflection for me.

I'm inviting you

Step back with me just about three years ago when I discovered the Community... (wow... Three years... Its seems like just yesterday cheifelberry wasn't supermod, and methusula was considered a god among men...)
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I was 15, just about to turn 16, and I had everything going for me... or atleast that's what every adult seemed to think. Rephrased, I was intelligent, spent time working at school, didn't have too many friends, had hardly talked to girls, and lets not even begin on my sex life. Well actually, why not, it won't take long to sum up. __________ Well that's about it. It must be great to be me right?

I met HER. The one. She's great, smart, cute, intelligent...<insert adjectives here>. Best of all, she TALKS to me. Now I'm young, and I probably won't _marry_ her (funny how I even thought of marriage...), but I think I *really* want to date her. Her name was XXXX (removed for privacy issues). Now I just have to figure out how to get her to want to date me too... Enter the community.

I came in looking for the answer. there had to be an answer. How did all those other guys get girls? They had something I didn't, and I wanted it. Now if I could just get the people here to spill the beans...

I give up. I'm not going to get this. I can't seem to figure it out. I guess I'm just doomed to a woman-less future.
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Flash forward to the present, and now, I've got it. I've FINALLY found what I'd been searching for. It took three odd years, but I've finally figured out what the people of the Community had been preaching to me for years, and I'm about to share it with you.

The story above serves a purpose. Hopefully by letting you know where I started, you will be more apt to listening to what I have to say. The secret is, there is no secret. It sounds cheesy, and cliché, but it is the truth. There is no quick fix, because there is nothing to fix.
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PUA is about more than sleeping with women, or getting the one girl to like you. PUA is about bettering lifestyle. PUA is about bettering your self. PUA is about becoming everything you've ever wanted, without compromise. If you are able to realise this, then you're well on your way to getting to where you want to be. Getting the girl is all just a side-effect of your sucess.

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Epilogue:
I really hope that people will benefit from this. It's now 2:30 AM and I've spent WAY too long writing this up, cutting it down, reading it, adding titbits, changing the wording, and formatting it, all in hopes that people will read it. For those of you new to the Community, I hope that this will make you think about what it is you really want to achieve. For you old timers, hopefully I've got you thinking about if you're where you want to be or not by now. And for those of you in my position, I hope I've rekindled the desire to achieve.

Yours in success,
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Amazing post. Very True.

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Excellent post

nice man

I got into PUA couple weeks ago but nothing too serious or deep It intrigued me after reading the GAME. But there was this girl I really liked and we met a long time ago but never really talked but I knew she was gonna be at this formal party and I did what I can to get her number that night and I succeeded. actually, she came with her friend and the night she was by my side and when her friend went for a smoke she stayed with me! I was sooo psyched I thought she was gonna be my girlfriend. she is a 10/10 in my books ( I love cute faces). we hooked up eventually but i was too nervous and I just made myself uncomfortable. I think after that she got a bad impresion of me..cause id call or txt her and shed respond but not once did she be the one to call or text me first...=(

that fueled me into understanding "the game" and how to better myself in these situations.. I've been on the computer on all my spare time literally reading, wtachig about PUA and I'm about to finally go int he field and practice this head on..

lol

I had so much fun reading that.

a) The font size change was fucking awesome. It was like a rollercoaster of tension and I imagined you like, whispering and yelling and shit.

b) It wasn't long

c) It's fucking true.

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good post

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I remember the exact day that I stepped into the forums. It was July 4th, 2008. This girl I met in class gave me her number, and I texted her all day. She enjoyed my company. She told me her interests and I didn't know why. She was attracted to me. Or so I thought. 1 thread and 2 days later, I figured out my problem. I was too much of a nice guy. I had fallen into a trap of the LJBF zone. Before I stepped into the forums, I thought that was what the formula was for attracting women. Going through their countless hoops and eventually begging on your knees for them to accept you into their lives. Her boyfriend broke up with her because of his lack of confidence of the trust in their relationship. She asked me to never text her again. The confusion that this had on my poor soul ignited my fuses to search for a solution.

1.. Getting girls is just a side effect of your success! GOOD JOB man i can see you put alot into this POST and its true! so how's success treating you buddy

2.. its like saying if i was rich i would get bunch of girls well dude work on your GOALS and Life in general Girls come naturally if you let it happen.

3.. inner game is the most important game to work on well thats my opinion

4.. just be comfortable when talking to HBs haha YEA! good luck

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I remember the one that really made me want to pursue this information. her name was alysha and i had like the worlds biggest thing for her in the last year of school... i was awkward back then and for some odd unexplainable reason she would actually go out of her way to talk to me.. i probably had a chance back then but i was completely oblivious, and to my detriment. i saw her 3 years later after finding her on oasis active (by this time i had seen cocky comedy and that was it) so i C&F'd her to death.. the phone game was tight, and by the time we finally met up again she said she'd been thinking of me all day... if only she knew how long she'd been in the back of MY mind!

there was repore, and chemistry,.. but i turned wuss... she wanted to go back to my house for "coffee" (it was thru the day) but i was a bit ashamed of my house so didnt end up going there... plus i msgd within an hour of the meet up which was probably about as needy as u can get. i realised that while in some areas i had made great stride... in others i was still fumbling (and am still fumbling) so i descided to chuck my entire mind into it for a while so when the next alysha comes around i dont have to wait 3 years then bungle my shot

Pretty much sums me up too great post.

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I started looking into the PUA world after I had completed my third complete run as an AFC in which I tried to tell a girl how much she meant to me only be put in the LJBF zone then seeing her date some other guy a week later. I took it as an opportunity to grow, and found that even I had some sort of game in me.

I had so many problems with girls. i had only been kissed once when both of us were drunk and had no self - esteem what so ever then one day i asked a girl out on a date and she said yes. I felt so happy finnaly all my problems were gone (are thats what it seemed) and had a great time. however after that it went sour she started to talk about her ex and how much she wanted him back even though he was abusive to her and really didn't care for her all that much she then invited him to come with her to my 17th birthday dinner at earls. I was pissed finally i just straight told her off after my birthday supper on messenger to stop being a prude.
since then ive patched up a little bit with her but i dought will be true friends again. it was mostly due to that i joined pua to get my love life in check.

The girl who drove me in was a virgin I dated for 9 months.

We took a break for two weeks and she fucked two different guys.

Then I took her back.

So I really was WAY bigger of a loser than most guys.

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Nice one, Sinn.

I read the Game in 2006, hmm... three years ago, actually.
I was steady fucking a girl, but she said she didn't want commitment. That spring, she suddenly didn't want sex, and soon she had a boyfriend.

Well I was leaving the town, so I didn't care.
I've had fuck-friends since I was 17, I think.

But it has always been a lot of time in between girls, and after the army, (compulsory in Norway) I returned to longing after a girl that ha always been out of reach... I joined the community, and got the girl after one month. I then realized that she wasn't really all I'd built her up to be.

The entire attraction lay in the fact she had constantly built sexual attraction with me over phone etc. in all the years she'd known me.
Playing me, keeping me dogging, while all through the time having it her way with lots of guys.


To that point I'd always been the AFC..
I'd even cried over telephone to a girl I could've closed (She even told me last year she was totally ready to bone me at that point, but I never moved in.), but didn't dare to, and pretty quickly made sure she'd never see me as fuckable again, through whining about how I wanted to kiss her and pathetic shit like it, hehe...
I'd crashed myself into the LJBF zone with dozens of girls I loved.
I had no problem K-closing, but somehow I never moved beyond that.
(I used to meet girls from the Internet...through these net-communities.)

I've never been comfortable on cold approaches.
I'm pretty introverted, so if a girl was into my type of thing, I'd have no problem establishing rapport and comfort building, sexual tension etc.
But I'd always be nervous, sweating profoundly, getting upset stomach, and all sorts of shit, hehe...

So joining the community was in real to get a girl, only to realize that was not really what I wanted...
Now it's more of a way of evolving myself, my beliefs and my social skills through dialogue with people who've made the change, and so on.

I've also turned to Crowley's question,
"What is your will?"
(you all know the quote "Do what thou wilt shall be the whole of the law"... The trick here is to discover what you truly want... and then living with that goal in mind.)