-----brief background-----

Okay, so i've known this HB9 (and really an HB9 she is beautiful.. C tits, small waste, the whole 9 yards) for about 2 years or maybe a little longer. Shared social circles and friends in high school. Now we are going to the same college and hang out once every couple of weeks or so.

She did have a BF for about 2ish months then broke up with him just before the christmas holidays. not to mention that, but she was off and on with her "high school sweetheart" whom she "fell in love with" in high school. But they're done. Been done for like 6 months.

She is single as of now, but last night brought up some guy she likes. I was asking about something not related to guys at all but she thought i was, so she mentioned "yeah so and so is being retarded right now" *while texting him*

-------------the night------------------

The night started out we were at her house hanging out watching movies. Her roommate was there and so were a few friends (couple guys, couple girls). Eventually, around 10ish, they left to the bars.
.... It was just this girl and I, alone. I was getting tipsy, taking a few shots and drinking a few brews (she took a couple shots with me, so she was buzzed). I was attempting to get close, she was showing my stuff on her laptop as we were on her couch. Little bit of kino, slight leg and arm kino. I was negging her and being playful, making her laugh. ++attraction++

Brought up the topic of sex two or three times, in a very good way. Non creepy, such as ''most girls i know don't even orgasm when they have sex...." blah blah. She liked talking about sex. I did too, it felt 100% normal and I didn't make it awkward.

All was going well, she was all primped and prepped up looking good wearing a super short dress, almost see the ass (and doing all of this after all her friends left... i saw it as IOI). We didn't even have plans for the night........ she kept saying "lets do something fun!" or "what do you wanna do?"

I KNOW I have built comfort and attraction at this point. We have hung out way enough. I know I have attraction because of the leg kino she would give me, as well as the prolonged, sexual eye contact. I notice she gets jealous when we're partying and girls start hitting on me, or i'm rapporting like hell with other girls. ANYWAYS.

The night was growing thin (around midnight) and she wasn't focused on me. She was doing her own thing around the house while talking to me, i was watching TV getting bored (and horny). So I assumed she was losing interest... so I went out on a limb and....

(Side note: A month or so ago when she broke up with her BF I happened to come over a couple hours after he dropped her, and she went on for an hour about how she wishes she could have sex 10 times a day. "im addicted to sex")

I thought I had this in the bag!!!!
I busted out with a "..... hmm you should give me a neck rub" (i had told her previously i worked on and waxed my car and had went to the gym that day)
I felt out her facial expression and she didn't seem too enthusiastic, so I said "fine i'll give you one then you give me one"

Just a harmless neck rub. They feel good. They relieve stress, she even told me she was stressing out earlier that night and I said it relieves stress. I know with females it can make them wet, and I was going to bust some Ross Jeffries on her ass.

She didn't seem interested in it, and said "haha, nice try, but no thanks"

She obviously knew I was trying to escalate. Maybe her buying temperature or whatever was low. Maybe she was on her period and not feeling horny. I DONT KNOW

I made a mistake (i was a bit drunk... horny... bored!) and texted her after I had left and said "LJBF... are ya kidding me???" and she said "what?" and that's all that was exchanged.

Any suggestions as to what you think is happening? Surely I can't be LJBF'd. In the past I know she has wanted me. When SHE isolated ME a year ago or so we were 2 seconds from locking lips for make out sesh when her friend busted in on us and ruined it. She will show me in her bra while pushing her tits up, trying to get me aroused (I know it). She looks damn good.

PS, the guys she's been dating seem substandard to me. As in, none of them have been really attractive hunks with big muscles. I know looks don't matter so much but the HS sweetheart is a taller 6'0 guy like me, but weighs like 130 lbs. Super skinny. Good looking face I guess. The other recent guy is a decent looking guy but he was like freakin 5'7 or 5'8, just an inch or so taller than her. he was short. I KNOW i'm better looking than both of these guys (im naturally tanned skinned half asian, swimmers built due to going to gym 4x a week, taller @ 6'1.... been told i should be a model, blah blah blah)


.....sorry for the long post, advice please!

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"going to workout and shit." -stunt101 (PUA chat)

Ouch, that's harsh. IMO, you waited too long. You tried to escalate after the connection you've built together began to fade - if you're not building rapport, you're losing it, so you gotta hit it while it's still hot.

I'm getting one or two really in depth replies at venusian arts... but I still love you all so I will share my experience that happened involving this incident.


She texts me at like 9:30pm when she has class in the morning (taking a course during winter break) to hang out. We get together and watch some good late night television together (chelsea lately.. or travel channel is good)

But anyway, massive kino right off the bat. We are chit chatting about random things and also telling eachother stories. I was doing some DHV and just good vibes. How I love this break from school and how I love the gym but anyway. LLight arm and shoulder, and one side-stomach kino....There was real kino where she puts hang on thigh and holds it there for a good 5 seconds (then of course i put mine on top then release first). As if she forgot what she was talking about. Maybe my kino made her totally forget about the subject... actually she did forget. "what were we talking about?" with a smile...
+++attraction+++
Keep in mind we couldn't have escalated too much considering there was another person in the room. Just a friend.
Just watching tv shootin the shit.. getting late though. 12:30 and she had something little to do. So we said our goodnights and shared a plesant hug. The kind where she pushes her breasts firmly against you. Yeah. Nice.

So it's going in a positive direction. Keep in mind I did sort of initiate the contact in the evening, then she escalated to actually getting together... even if for a couple hours (maybe 1.5 or 2)

I feel as though she is to the point where she wants and enjoys my presence. That is a very strong foundation.

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"going to workout and shit." -stunt101 (PUA chat)

I dont know bro but it seems like you follow very indirect game (Mystery method) . Too much hints, mix signals from your side...You have to go more direct, show some confidence, take charge etc. Go for the kill. It looks to me like you waiting for her to say "Lets fuck" and that will most likely not happen...After the kino she said "lets do something fun.", "what do you want to do?"!! wtf? she was in mood for sex like a mother fucker!

If that was me in your place i would say "I was thinking of giving you a night of pleasure and continuous orgasms but im not sure if you deserve it, but if you make this kiss sexy i might change my mind, (without letting her reply, go for the kiss). If i could i would eat her out too, but do it right so she would be drooling for more. My style is more direct, I dont like fucking around and wasting my time.

Before she told you "nice try, but no thanx", and what did you do or say after that? I would say "nice try what? I was just making you feel good but obviously you have something on your mind... you know the arabic saying "hungry person thinks about food?" you must be really horny right now, do you want me to spank you and giving raging orgasms one after another? you shouldnt have brought up that topic, now my mind is going crazy with all the naughty things i want to do it to you." (said it with playful voice, smile and confidence). You could continue telling her what you would do to her, making her imagination go wild and starting to get really horny.

My style is a lot more direct than yours, it requires brass balls and confidence, i dont know about you, you might just have balls.

You can turn least favorable situation to favorable situation. Tease her to the extremes, continue blaming your desire and horny'nes on her.

You can use this when you already heavily making out and sucking on her breasts. For women sex is mostly mental, right words at the right times can make them go crazy.

"I would love to penetrate you so you could feel my warm penis sliding in and out your juicy pussy, remember how good that feels?"

Stop being sorry for being a man and wanted to fuck
Stop acting like girls dont want to fuck
Dont wait for the girl to pull your pants down, it happens very very rarely.
Assume she is attracted to you and wants you, she is just waiting for you to man up a bit.

My bad for slapping you a bit, but i have learned that sometimes people need some slappin.

Good luck