These are some of the affirmations I use for myself:

Trust yourself.

Think for yourself.

Don't believe everything you are told because it is spoken by people who are just.

Question yourself and what you think is "common knowledge?"

There are some things I have come to ponder on my "adventure" so far. And feel free to question me and what I have to say as well. First I don't care how socially awkward someone might be in conversation/social dynamics/whatever, with the right attitude he/she can become legendary in any social field they want (or any other field for that matter). You have the ability to do just that even at this moment, it's just the inhibitions that may be slowing you down. If you really want it you can get it. You just have to make a commitment to yourself. That's what I did/am doing.

There are very few things I feel qualified to guarantee in life but I pretty much guarantee you these things:

1. You have the power AT THIS MOMENT, whether or not you will acknowledge it or let it loose, to go up to even the hottest woman in that bar and make her cum right and the bar stool.

2. All those attractive qualities women love are in your very Being.

3. No matter who or what you are, you can learn to trust, love, and respect yourself. That's all it takes to feel better about yourself, women are just the reward for having good self-esteem.

4. I don't care if you are a 60 year old virgin. You can still succeed. In reality there is no success in life other than successfully attending to what you are doing at this moment. Don't let negativity or the past bother you. Anger and hate are the killer. Don't get distracted by fantasies of the future either.

5. (Legal) drugs can definitely help but in the end know that it is YOU not the drug that succeeds. That is for real.

6. Life is worth living, and it is too short to squander away in hate, and anger.

7. Most importantly, when you transfer from low self-esteem and low self-confidence to their opposites, all those barriers that prevent you from being the uninhibited you.

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All that we are is the result of what we have thought. If a man speaks or acts with an evil thought, pain follows him. If a man speaks or acts with a pure thought, happiness follows him, like a shadow that never leaves him. -- Buddha (the playa)