I'm recently trying to pick up a colleague HB8. I really like her and it seemed to go well. I git ioi's, a lot of EC, after work we where waiting outside and she asked "do u want to keep me warm"

I found her facebook and #-closed her with ease. I know I don't prefer #closing on facebook either, but it could take some time before we would meet again, if i didnt try to arrange a meeting asap. So I needed the #.

I always try to work with C&F for some reason. And since she is studying for her exams SPAM i wanted to cheer for her.

I texted this:

hi girl
study well, you can do it ;-)
grtz
euhm
your anonymous adorer

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she should know it's me since i told her i wanted to cheer for her and support her while asking for her #.

she responded:

Is it crisis? I'm used to get more during the exams ..

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I analyzed this as her asking for me to escalate more then just cheer for her.
But i didnt want to escalate too much trough texting and tried a C&F answer:

Normally I would come to your place and give u a massage and pamper you. But i'm an ANONYMOUS adorer and my Identity should stay so

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didnt realy expacted a certain answer but this is what i got sigh:


I already have somebody else for that and now leave me alone !!

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it's like a slap in my face
and dont know how to fix it :s

any sugestions?

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ice_melter

Find out when here exams are finished, and arrange a little get-together for afterwards. Ignore her until then. Any attempt at gaming her before then will make you look like a self-absorbed loser. A lot can be gained by paying attention to where she's at right now. she's studying and doesn't want to be distracted. She made that clear and you should respect her boundaries. Once her exams are over, you'll have a better chance at scoring with her too!

ohhhhhh!!! what a bitch! lol what a friggen tease, giving u IOI's like that.

you should reply with "ur ugly anyway" lol just kidding

i'd say forget about her

The english is a little rough, but to me it sounds like she's joking around...

Even if she isn't, just interpret it that way...

Something like:

Haha, yeah your mom does give pretty good massages... but mine are better

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haha..

I'd say reply with "ur ugly anyway" then forget about her

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