| NOW, I'm very aware this is kind of a long post, but that's why I desperately need you guy to help me with this.
allright, here's the thing. I've been going out with an HB9, that is:
-met her in my prom, little more than a week ago (friday)
-got her msn and chatted monday night with instant rapport
-send her an sms to hang out on friday, said yes.
now here are some details and backround:
Met her in my prom:
almost accidently, I wasn't playing with her at all (I guess). But I can say we connected pretty good. At one point she comments the guy she's kind of going out with was indoors and dancing with his friends, and that she was shy to go and dance with him (no comments yet please, read the hole). anyway, we chatted a little more, and she goes inside with her friend. later on we see each other inside, and she comes to me to talk. again, the guy situation is on. I tell her "lets go dancing you tell me who he is" we do so, and at some point I go and sit (she does at the exact same time - mirroring?) and I start (PLEASE don't hit me) encouraging her to go and dance with him. we are there like 15 - 20 minutes when she does go (no IOIs from her so far, only what could be called friendly interaction). I can tell nothing happened among them that night because a bit later I see her next to the entrance, appearently ready to go with her friend.
What I see: She could have feel attracted by a guy who didn't tried to hit on her right after meeting her but was deeper. She also loved my sense of humor. later while chatting on msn she commented she really liked me (don't know if I must take it as IOI or friendly comment)
Chatting on monday night:
I asked this friend of hers (also of mine) for her mail, she gave it to me and we chatted, as I said, with instant rapport. she asks me what I did on saturday night, I answer and ask back. she tells me she went to the dike with her "boy" and some friends, stayed all night long, saw the sunrise, etc. right away she says she really liked me the other night, and asks if I did like her. blah blah blah. She comments it'd be cool if we go out some day to have a soda or something, and asks for my cellphone. I tease her, repeating I didn't like her and why would i give her my cell blah blah.. I give it and ask for hers, she gives it to me and long story made short, I could not store it. Other time I'm chatting with the same friend who gave me the mail and I ask her for the HB cellphone, she then comments the HB told her she gave me her number (talk about me,, some signal? or something that came up while they were talking?)
What I see: Is the "guy" mention a shit test? or she really just sees me as a friend? she didn't wait for me to ask for her cellphone, she asked for mine and opened a window for a future hook up, stating she liked me. so far, very confused.
Hanging out on friday:
so exactly a week after meeting her we go out, initially to have something to drink in the evening. we have a coke and fries connecting in an incredibly way, a lot of chemistry. we talk non stop for about an hour and a half, at which point it starts drizzling, and we decide to go. at the beginning it was the end of the [I'd call it] date, but while walking and talking with end up talking about pool, and ask her if she wanted to play some. we go then, and begs me to not make fun of her playing, and to teach her how to (mmm IOI? we're talking about pool). we get there and asks me to teach here the shooting and stuff, positing of the hand, etc (again, IOI?). More than once (I'd say like 6 times) we are talking and she comes closer than what you'd expect in a friend, most of the times giving me what I would call a doggy dinner bowl look (like 20 cm between faces, she asking for a K-close?). we tease each other with shooting, etc. a very good athmosphere. While having the soda, she mentioned her "boy" once or twice, while playing pool, once and because I asked about something, and her answer implied him.
(Almost) hang out saturday night:
sat night there was a constumes party at the dike. the other day she told me she was surely going, she didn't. I send her an SMS ansking her where she was and teasing a bit, ans she texts back she was camping with her "boy" and some friends, ask what was my costume, etc. I answer back saying (among other unimportant stuff) that i'll text her these days to go playing pool next week let see if u can beat me this time text comes and goes and I tell her to chat on msn today (sunday). now, my plan so far is not to log in to msn today and leave her expecting so. the pool text, send it on thursday or friday, the week ending.
Here's want I'm intending to do so far the next time we go playing pool:
-Play a lot of kino with her
-Teach her the "proper way" how to shoot at pool, maybe with some joke ("don't worry - that's just my cellphone" was the one in mind).
-She comes as close as the last time (virtual certainty) I will take those moments to build sexual tension, without doing anything the first times and going back to the pool as if nothing.
-Will try to get a Kc when she comes closer, very sweet and short to make a good combination with what she sees on me, yet with enough tension to make her want more.
ANYWAYS,.,,.,, plz all PUAs any help here?
many thx in advance. _________________ Current Level: [PUA]
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