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not me.
i expect respect and loyalty.
and i'm jealous. it's a natural outcome of love. i mean, fuck, if you went to the park and your dog jumped in someone else's car and they took him home, wouldn't you be upset?
i'd kill a motherfucker.
I used to be terribly jealous. To the point where I sometimes found it debilitating. I think I got over that about 2 months ago, so I'm no longer jealous without cause, but if I'm in a relationship with a girl and it's not just a completely openly casual thing where we just have fun together and have sex occassionally, but where we are in a real relationship, then I expect that she won't do that sort of thing.
Now if she's just harmlessly flirting, just like I do with some of my female friends, that I don't have any real plans of sleeping with, then I'm not gonna get super upset because I figure that's just kinda human nature. If I'm gonna do it, then she can do it, just as long as it isn't serious flirting and it's just that playful screwing around kind. I know that there is a huge grey area there and that raises the question of how much do you trust him/her to keep it just playful, but if you get mad every time she flirts with a guy just a smidgen, you're gonna end up with a broken relationship before too long. Either that, or all the fun and zest for life drains out of the person because they're moderating their personality and not just enjoying life freely.
Like I said though, I expect the same level of respect and loyalty that I'll give her. That means that I'm not going to be kissing, grinding or having any sexual contact with other girls and she shouldn't be doing any of those things with other guys. A little harmless wordplay is one thing, but soon as it gets physical, then you're crossing the line.
I think a certain level of jealousy is healthy. I'd like to say that I'm a big enough person that if a girl cheated on me I'd just walk away and forget about her. In reality though, I always remember something Sean said to me.
You think you're cool with her being with another guy? You think that it isn't a big deal and won't bother you? Ok, cool. Imagine you're out at the bar. You've been having some fun with the boys, you've had a few drinks, the night is going really well, you're thinking about heading home and makin' some sweet sweet lovin' to your gorgeous girlfriend waiting for you there.
You get up to go to the bathroom and when you walk in, you see a girl on her knees giving a guy a blowjob. Your first thought is, "Nice! Good job buddy!" She's not just sittin there sucking his dick though, she's fuckin taking the whole thing, she's sticking it so far down her throat that she's gagging! She's got drool pouring out of her mouth and her hair is all messed up cause he's gripping the back of her head. Then you see her face and realise that it's YOUR girlfriend! Her eyes are all puffy and red cause she's just givin it all she's got! Then you look up and the guy notices you and it's your WORST ENEMY. The guy you hate more than anyone else on the planet, standing there, giving you the thumbs up with a big cocky grin, with his hand firmly on the back of her head, planting his cock down your lover's throat. Then he pulls out and cums all over her face and not just a little bit, but one of those HUGE messy loads. Picture that scene.
Still ok with her fucking other guys?
I know what I'd do. I'd smash the bottle over his head and start breaking his ribs with my boot. There might be a murder on my hands. Not proud of it, but that's the truth. Are you man enough to admit your true feelings?
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but that's a different story. but you can bet your sweet ass we met her at that football game that night.