so, there's this girl I've known for a very long time, I always tried to get her, it ended not happening because sometimes we argue(strong personalities..), or she because she was getting hooked...

recently we started seeing each other again..

her personality is like... she's really girly, kinda immature, in my perception she don't know how to be lovely(but is), therefore a brute girl...kinda hard to escalate kino too
she's always mocking her friends, at first I tought she was a bitch, but them realized that she's cute.. that this is mainly because its the way she demonstrates affection(she has already told me that she don't know how to show interest very well)

she has tons of AFCs on her feet... its ridicule, there's one son-of-a-bitch there that I think the high time in his day is coming to her orkut and leaving a lame-ass AFC scrap calling her "my love =***"
first I tought it was a treat, but then I saw the guy( ) and heard she commenting with her friend that the guy's so illuded and etc

also, my best friend is hitting on her too, I don't think he has more chances than I do, but's annoying also

not to mention the lots of guys that come there asking her out...

but really, I think from all these Im the unique who has the guts to hold on to this girls personality....

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now about my situation with her:

last week we went to a bar to celebrate the birthday of a friend of her, by that time she was already telling me that Im hot and probably getting the point
then there I were drinking beer, she took my cell phone and started seeing my messages(IOI?) but there was a lot of girls messages, obviously and she started acting to me like I was player/like if I was in love with some other girl and she really got dissapointed

the other day she says playfully on my msn "yesterday I was thinking about getting with you, but after reading those messages I gave up "
I answered playfully

and friday we went to a bar, where we had the oportunity to escalate more, finnaly she started doing some kino(in a brute way, but I could tell)
but.. she was not drinking and had to leave early

you see, this girl is that kind that's really girly, she always bring a friend so she's 'protected' and can lay on them when she's unable to let things escalate...this last day at the bar she brought that AFC guy AND the gay friend....

sometimes she'll talk about how Ill sustain our family and such
calls me baby, cute, hot
always complains that I need to be more lovely(I am, but I also compensate with negging and C&F sometimes to keep the MAN status and not falling at friendzone/she get dominant)
my friend left me a message saying that we should go to a strip club in my birthday, she went on his MSN and said something like "hey, don't call breno to the strip club!"

we saw each other like 4 times this week, and this week there's gonna be some hangs probably....Im getting tired of this, the afcs are annoying me as hell and I don't want to keep in this state for longer than this week

I believe she wants it, buts a damned tricky close to get..
what do you guys think? how to handle this kind of girl? how should I close her? how do I make her stop this friends shelter bullshit?