I didn't vote in the poll because the choices are confusing and unfair.
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I don't about you reading this in your corner of the world- but here in the UK (United Kingdom/Great Britian) it is December 09
Well that's a miracle in it self! in my 'corner' of the world it's November 30th. I didn't know a corner existed that was 9 days ahead (unless you meant December, '09 where you would be a year ahead).
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With these plans in place by mid October I was about to venture out BUT something struck me.
Most women are
a) Already in relationships (they tend to settle down with their "mate" in the last of summer rush)
b) they're thinking of boyfriends, friends and family at Christmas and wont be as open to new social invites
c) Not as open to starting a relationship at Christmas
d) Come January 09 big decisions are made- New Diet, Getting her "body back" after Christmas lunch, Ditching "Xmas romances"
It sounds like you have a lot of self-limiting beliefs.
a) A lot of women may have boyfriends, but guess what? If they aren't serious and she is out without him, then that shouldn't be much of an obstacle. Women are always looking for the bigger better deal and if your game is tight she will jump ship.
b) Speculation, and untrue in my mind. Women are DTF any time of the year.
c) Says who?
d) More speculation that is completely unfounded, caused by your negative outlook
If you believe these things then they will be self-fulfilling prophecies in that you will make them be true. You will look for reasons to not sarge or not try to pick up girls. You are holding yourself back in the worst kind of way.