From the "Hot Alpha Female" blog:
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Tuesday, July 22, 2008
Why I Love Pick Up Artists
"I love Week" is officially ON!!! This week I'm going to talk about things that I Love(funny that). More specifically topics which I hold close to my heart. So lots to talk about, lots to reveal and so little time.
So lets get started.
Now I wanna talk about what a pick up artist really is and WHY I think they are so great.
Let me just first touch on something really quickly. There are a lot of women out there who don't like pick up artists. Who can't stand their techniques or even worse say that they don't even work!! Personally I think that they need a bitch slap to wake up and smell all the fun they are missing out on.
There are even guys out there who reject all this pick up stuff. I mean sure, whatever man, if you want to continue being crap and clueless with women, by all means don't listen to all this pick up advice. But I'm doing you a favor. Really.
Picking up is not about manipulation. Its about learning how to interact with women the right way. Its about picking apart all the things that you "think" work (but clearly don't) and replacing them things that do work.
Its really that simple, promise. But just because I say something is simple. That does not mean that it is easy. For simple and easy are two different things.
I mean lets say for example to lose weight. Its simple. Eat less, work out more. Yet its so hard for many people because they have all this emotional crap to get through.
That is what pick up really is about. Clearing all your emotional crap and replacing it with some good stuff. Stuff that works. Stuff that helps you get what you want.
Thus the main reason why I'm writing my book which will be coming out very soon!! *squeals!*
Ok enough of my ranting. So what is the main reason why I love pick up artists. There are so many reasons but here are a couple of them.
Ok the really successful pickup artists are of course incredibly attractive, because I think in general success is an attractive quality. The ones that have really mastered pick up are hot, not just because they are now what we would call natural at the game but because many of them are now focused on helping other guys to get better at the dating game.
Successful, ambitious and love to contribute ... well that’s a plus plus plus
And so the second reason why I love any pick up artist no matter what level they are at, is that they have at least an open mind and are being proactive about their life. So instead of just sitting their butts complaining and bitching to anyone and everyone that will listen, they are actively searching and open to new ways of behaving or perceiving the world.
Open minded and proactive .... plus plus
And the third reason is that they are just a shite load more fun and interesting!!! I really think that pick up is all about discovering who you really are and then growing the balls to bring that to the world. When you have the guts to be yourself, the whole world opens up to you. It seriously does. All my player friends are so MUCH FUN!! They tease you, they bag you out, they are unpredictable. I love it, they love it, everyone ends up loving it. Its such a good feeling being around people who just "get it". Where you honestly don't have to think about anything except being yourself.
Fun, interesting and gutsy .... plus plus plus
And last but not least this is by far my most favorite thing about pick up artists. When they finally get all the crazy sex deprived attitude out of their system (eventually happens) and they start wanting to find a good quality girl and not just quantity, they are really well rounded and personally developed guys. With (yes) a lot of experience but also a little more maturity when it comes to dating, life and relationships. They have lived a lot of life, they have so many rich experiences and the whole process of picking up and learning about the game has ultimately led them to fully accept themselves as they are. They now know and understand what they want, what their needs are and usually they have an incredibly developed outlook on life.
Confident, well developed and true understanding of themselves ..... deal sealers
Now that’s not to say that when there is a pick up artist around (its easy to tell) that you aren’t going to test them that little bit harder. Its like tennis, if you know your opponent is good you are totally going to up your game to match it.
Same rule applies here.
I can’t help it, its only natural to test guys. But what I’m saying, is that if you get one in the right time, they are well worth it =)
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