> Date: Sat, 15 Nov 2008 21:13:47 +0000
> Subject: 2 vs 1
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> Sometimes you will encounter yourself in situations in which you are in a two set alone or one girl, a friend (her or yours)and you. In this common scenario you will have to play things carefully.
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> Here are some guidelines:
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> In any situation of 2 vs 1 you need to make the conversation evolve around you. You need to be involved in the conversation, because you need to be alpha and in order to drag the attention you need to be a part of the group.
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> Depending on the situation you need to know what is best. Giving your attention to your target or giving it to the obstacle.
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> Manipulating the obstacle, is an effective technique. You want to make him like you, laugh of your jokes and even take your side, once again this has a complication because it becomes hard. A great way to make the obstacle like you is focusing your attention to him, talking to him.
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> Jealousy. The obstacle can become a tool if you know how to do it.
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> Remember that the obstacle become a great factor in a 2 vs 1 situation, specially when you want to isolate.
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> Sometimes you will find that even your friends become an obstacle in a 2 vs 1 situation and being aware of what to and what not to do is important.
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> * Find an equilibrium between the attention given to your target and the one given to your obstacle and change them according to the indicators both of them send you
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> This becomes complex, because we are talking about full social dynamics, but it is better to be well aware of the situations.
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> XFMAN
>
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