This post is for anyone who has just started learning the art of gaming (for lack of a better word). I would like to address the fact that some if not most of you are coming here and learning these life skills for the entirely wrong reasons.

I was chatting with someone who I had helped with his AA. This person came on a few months ago and had crippling AA, he also had low self worth. Since he received these simple pointers he seemed to have had his “game” on track. Then in the chat he said something that I couldn’t believe, “I want to get a GF so I can dump her in a few days”. Needless to say I was shocked. I asked why would he ever get an idea like that and his answer was just as bad as the comment in the first place. He sad that at his school (college) people were judged by having had relationships. Not sex but simply a GF or BF. Meaning that he was extremely caught up in what AFCs think of him. He was willing to use our "tools" to get attraction from a girl, just to screw her over like any regular guy. We are here because at one point or another every single one of us were insecure about an aspect of ourselves. We come here to change our lives, to better ourselves. We come here to learn skills for whatever reason we were lacking in order to become socially attractive, but after his comments I realized that his mindset was most likely the same as the other (especially younger) newbs. I understand that some of you are in high school and reputations are extremely important. My point is, once you start learning about what “proper game” is you need to always remember that a “PUA” is the exception to all AFCs and their actions. We distinguish ourselves in every way! Whether its being concerned with others opinions, how we dress, and how we actually “game”. No aspiring “PUA” should ever under any circumstances be effected in any way by the opinions of AFC’s.

In this case he was willing to play with this woman’s head just show AFC’s that he has value. I explained to him that by doing this he was going against everything we stand for. I asked him why would he want to associate himself with these lower value people anyway. I asked him to remember when he was asking me how to approach sets. After all of this he realized that what he was saying was incredibly ridiculous.

Hopefully by now all of you know what it is to be Alpha. An Alpha no matter what the circumstance ever conforms to the group, if he did he would lose all respect. Whether you are in high school or not you never commit the same idiotic actions that they do. I don’t care if you have been labeled a certain way and you feel like there is nothing you can do to lift yourself out of this situation. You can never have doubts about improving yourself. If you were to do a complete 180 and become the Alpha of your school what negative effects do you think could happen? How about nothing, once you become the Alpha and know how to stay that way it doesn’t matter who you used to be or who knew you, all that matters is now. Become the Alpha of you domain and rule it, never guess against yourself, never EVER conform to AFCs.

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"HE WHO MAKES A BEAST OF HIMSELF GETS RID OF THE PAIN OF BEING A MAN"