I think going into a store where guys usually don't go would be a huge DHV if you keep your cool. It's like a weird peacock theory right? The point of peacocking is that you are going against some social norm and you can survive. This could be achieved by going into victoria's secret and not being creepy.

How do you guys feel about this?

Heres the thing with the mall. You can be highly successful too. If you go by some cute girls and stop them and say Hey do you think the rock star david bowie is hot? they are gonna look at you like your stupid and keep walking. Which i would do the same if i was a hot girl.

You need to be direct. Get straight to the point. If you need to tell 5 girls "hey i think your very cute" to get you in the Zone, do it. This way, after like your 5th one, you will come off as confident and not nervous at all. As opposed to your first approach. If your gonna approach a hot girl in the mall, go direct. Some will want to hook up, some wont. But the point is, the more practice you have, the more that will hook up.

I do this, it works. trust me.

Heres the thing with the mall. You can be highly successful too. If you go by some cute girls and stop them and say Hey do you think the rock star david bowie is hot? they are gonna look at you like your stupid and keep walking. Which i would do the same if i was a hot girl.

You need to be direct. Get straight to the point. If you need to tell 5 girls "hey i think your very cute" to get you in the Zone, do it. This way, after like your 5th one, you will come off as confident and not nervous at all. As opposed to your first approach. If your gonna approach a hot girl in the mall, go direct. Some will want to hook up, some wont. But the point is, the more practice you have, the more that will hook up.

I do this, it works. trust me.

I was thinking that you shouldn't be direct because if you come across as direct to an HB8+, if they don't think your attractive right away, you've lost any chance of the pick up. 9 times out of 10 that's going to be the case unless you are walking around with a women on your arm already. They are going to think that you are like every other sapp who has approached them. I really like going indirect in a situation like that.

I was thinking about coming in with an opinion opener and then moving right into a DHV story. I was thinking about asking a girl for help with a present for my mother/sister and then getting into better conversation. She would tell me something she likes then I could use that to either ask her more about what she reccommends or other things she likes (by using sentence break downs for conversation) or use the opportunity to talk about myself and DHV.

Anybody have any other opinions that they can share with this? I'm going to be going to a mall with a lot of opportunities and I would really like to get some good practice tonight.

I once decided to open in the most unlikely place too- the lingerie shop.

My opener was an opinion opener to a cute girl shopping for stockings. I said, "Hey can I get your opinion on something? My female acquantance who I party with, is going clubbing tonight and its a lingerie themed party. Shes a little shy as she thinks stockings are only for the bedroom, whats your opinion on this?"

I gotta be honest it didn't open 100% fully, as it was inappropriate behaviour.

Yeah by all means day game girls in the Mall, but do so in coffe shops or ask for an opinion on a shirt you've been eyeing

I was thinking of going with an opener just asking what she would reccommend for a christmas present for my mother/sister. That way it would be a more conservative answer.

Also, do you think an opinion opener from Style about whether to brush before you floss or floss before you brush could have any positive results? I was thinking it's not something too inappropriate but it's not direct either.

Im not sure where you guys are from, but firday is black friday and i plan to go "shopping" i have a good opener im going to use to,

"Hey excuse me, im trying to pick out some clothes for my mom for christmas and your style is JUST like hers. you think you could help me pick something out for her?"

heh heh, they can take it as A) A neg (i plan for a) or B) my mom dresses "cool as fuck like them"

I give yall permission to use my shit dont worry no copyright laws.... YET.

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In a lingerie shop?

"Hi, I'm looking to pick out some underwear for MY MOM."

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work for one girl or a group of girls...

"Let me know if you need a man's opinion...."

She/they will smile and you can go from there

"What are you looking for.... blah blah...."

I guess if anyone has any general suggestions I will take them. This started just as a theory but I am going to try and game the whole mall so I'm up for any help. I really would like to get my first # close. This is field attempt #3 by the way.

Not bad, this is worth trying.

you know my shits awesome haha j.k its just a little somethign i always think up something but when i get In field and see things that propose greater ideas for a better opener it always changes...

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