i want to know the best videos, the best cd series' and the best books to read. ive got foundations by RSD but havent listened yet. ive read DYD by DeAngelo but i think thats really the preschool equivalent of everyone elses stuff (just my opinion, everyone else seems to detail more). im reading the venusian arts handbook (which is completely overrated tbh, listening to mystery for like half hour goes through everything in it). ive read the game (non essential but cracking good read). ive watched david d's advanced series, listened to mind of mystery and ive listened to nearly all of the interviews with dating gurus. still this may have improved my knowledge of game, but without the practice i should put in, its not very helpful. i cant get out much due to my living situation (miles away from friends) and i never even spoke to a girl til i was about 15 or 16. ive just turned 18 and assumed thatb with that milestone age everything changes. it doesnt. in fact i get less attention now. best ive got in the last few months is IOI's from a 14yr old girl. well anyway, id love to know some tips ablut first approaches. im thinking of doing some at college where most girls ill never speak to again. its low risk and should be fun. but heres a problem. should i get a more or less attractive wing? my best friend wants us to mutually wing for eachother, but hes really good looking and already fantastic at flirting but doesnt know it. for fear of being overshadowed should i ditch him and get a new wing? i also have no ability to flirt whatsoever. my friends can all do it, they tried to teach me and im like a robot. and is it a good ideato start with ugly girls and work up the ladder, or do i jump in at the deep end to make it easier with uglier girls? id appreciate any input for my various questions. thanks a bunch ,

your pal,

Shred

I'm going to skip the part regarding literature and just reply on the last half.

As the old proverb states, "Experience is the best teacher."

So get out there, keep track of what you are doing (what is working, what isn't working), adjust accordingly.

Best of luck!

Wow bro...time to chill. I say this with as much respect as possible because I've been there to trying to get my hands on anything and everything when I first started so I understand. You've read enough though. If ANYTHING get Attraction Explained by AFC Adam which might blow your mind by it's simplicity and how little you actually need...it's only 38 pages.

Therapy is spot on though. It's time for you to start getting out there and putting what you've read into action and experimenting for yourself.

Not sure if this next thing will truly apply to you though since it's aimed for more intermediate level guys but the basic concept is still the same so check it out...

http://www.thundercatseductionlair.com/ ... -own-guru/

Hope this helps

Psych

I would suggest spending no more time or money on books/dvds/ whatever for at least the next 6 months (longer if your not practicing daily at this). Experiance is the only thing thats going to teach you the skills you need.

As for the wing situation. First off, how good looking your friend is doesnt matter at all. You already know that based on the list of things you have already studied. My advice. Take your good looking, better flurting, friend out as much as you can, and watch him, study him, learn whatever you can from him. At the same time, you should be going out solo. Solo is hard to do, but it forces you to practice, if you dont your just going to be sitting in a club all alone which is no fun at all. When your out on your own you can experiment with whatever you think might work. Keep what does, toss what doesnt.