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Just For starters. This doesn't apply to all women.. Just the ones that pop in mind when you read this. !!I'm at no point saying, Be mean. Cruel. Or Vicious.!!
PUA Creed : Leave the girl better than you found her.
I find that it's very contradicting to what we aim for.
Some points we aim to create tension.. in this ideal.. Why don't we make the girl we put all that time in.. In the position to build tension. We worked for her.. now she's working for us.. Makes for a nice cycle.
[If placing her in the position to build tension causes her to suffer.. or you think she isn't deserving of that SPAM.. that's your call.. This isnt ment for a Use on every girl type thing.]
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We call it tough love, Kharma, wake-up call..
Some women are down-right bitches.. An actress disguised as a perfect mate. There to fool you. For what-ever it is..
Plain as sight.. your a fool for falling for it.. But. Giving them what they deserve ... They made you a fool. Making them a fool its just fair play.
[and it seems controversial partly, cause your hurting them. But, using this lightly.. What doesnt kill them makes them stronger]
Gold-diggers. Attention Whores. Emotional Whores. Control. [when i say whores. They fiend for the quality(ies)]
Though down right.. your the fool for falling for it.. or allowing that into your life. I say it's fair game to give them that wake-up call.
All through this.. you have to use your OWN idea of where to draw the line.. You might just be misunderstanding. Didn't Lay out your expectations and set yourself up to fail.. the list is never ending on ways to be misguided..
I just think, rules are set as guidelines.. not always are they meant to be followed.. and never to be ignored.
Mili -out-
Let me clarify..."leave them better than they started" means exactly as it states, give them a better experience they their having already. I look @ it as "treat others how you want to be treated".
Tough Love...I'm a firm believer in that too, hell anyone who knows me knows I call out bullshit- left right and center. Its the way I learned things and it's helped me.
They both have the best intentions for the other person. Your not in this picture.
The disagreement I'm having with your post is; your basically twisting good intentions and making it "an eye for an eye" concept..which is put bluntly just fucked.
Your 1st issue is this; your not making your boundaries and not standing by them because for those types of people your mentioning. I STAY FAR AWAY FROM. Their not even in the picture for me. So... to quote you
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Though down right.. your the fool for falling for it.. or allowing that into your life.I say it's fair game to give them that wake-up call.
Ya...That's true, your truly the fool to use your own words, meaning it is your responsibility having let it happen.
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I say it's fair game to give them that wake-up call.
"An eye for an eye", I strongly disagree here- the sole blame is on you, meaning your responsibility- you let this happen. Sure..she may be part of the blame but you can't control her. Hurting her is not the answer. Remember "Leave them better than they started"? How is that accomplishing that? Your just projecting your anger onto a person. To put it down..your responsible for everything in your life- your perception of it, your emotions, your mentality etc. This includes OUTSIDE forces- you may not be able to control them but you can control on how YOU receive them.
At this point with the "payback" mentality..your not doing her or you any good. You can't change her, only yourself- its her trip- not yours. If anything your just making it worse. Extreme case- she wakes up and Thanks you, but even before then you should have set your boundaries so she knows what you don't and do accept.
I agree there are only guidelines and no rules- however, in this case...I completely disagree. That's just me though.
Cheers!
-Zac
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