Last night was halloween and during my festivities out around town I was approached by a PUA for sure. Well let me clarify that...he knew some PUA material but was not great at implementing it.

So he approached me while I was waiting outside the restroom for my friend (I'm not so sure if I think that is a smooth move or not bc the bathroom is rather removed from the rest of the bar). Anyway, he came right up to me and was like, "aww give me a big hug"....that was a good move to start bc he somehow said it so it wasn't creepy...he didnt come off as a creeper. I can't remember what we were talking about but I remember I wasn't really interested and everytime he sensed that he was losing me mentally and physically he would say "give me a hug" to control the frame. But it just got really annoying after one or two.

He did some other pua related stuff but I will spare the details because this is the important part....I asked him if he has ever read the game bc it was clear that he had and he just kept pretending like he didnt hear me...so i would repeat it and he would just say "huh??" Then I said, I will ask you one more time so you better answer me truthfully or im going to walk away and his reply was just a confirming smile.

So first off, has anyone ever identified your efforts before and if so how did you handle it or how do you think it should be handled? I don't think this guy did a great job...yes I was giving him the ultimate shit test, but sometimes you might get that so you need to be prepared. I don't think ignoring it over and over is the right way to go. Because the more you ignore it, the more she will realize you are ignoring her which will ultimately draw more attention to the situation.

I always make a point of being honest with women, nomatter what. Yeah, I've read the game. It's pretty good... I was really shy up until about 5 years ago and the stuff I read in there inspired me to change. Not only do I feel like a better person, but it's helped me out with a lot of things such as work and I even have a better relationship with more of my family these days. If a girl thinks that's a bad thing then she's not the kind of person I'd want to know.

Depends on my mood and how deep into the conversation I am. If I just started talking to them, I may laugh about it and confess that I know exactly what they are talking about, or I may pretend to be clueless. If I've been talking to them for more than a minute, then I'll be completely honest. I actually typically end up talking about the fact that I study and coach guys on this kind of stuff, because it's my greatest passion and so it always ends up coming up in conversation somehow.

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When I started out I got called on it a few times, most of the time I would just loose the set things would get awkward and I would leave. Now if I get called on it I openly admit it, most women are actually fascinated once you assure them it isn't about getting laid.
Best way to go about this is ask them if they have ever read a womens magazine that has articles on how to get the guy of your dreams or other generic title, then tell them personally why you are interested in it (I got into it kinda by accident but have realized its a really positive community that makes you an all round better person). Then I usually say there are a lot of different people in the community all in it for different reasons, some are just sleazy bastards wanting some magic lines to get a quick lay but that is not why most people are in it.

It basically carries on like this all the while you are escalating the kino, talking enthusiastically and connecting on points of view you share. In short they have just delivered some emotionally and romantically linked subject matter that you know a lot about.

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i have never been caught in action as such.... everyone knows what i am and what i do lol. but if someone asked me if i had read it and i didnt want to get caught out itd be:
hb: have you read the game??
pua:YES!!! what a book!! micheal morpugo! i love it how he describes how he protects his family with a passion!

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If you're good bitches won't catch on.

Usually on a warmup set and I #close I just say "Thank you for your time, My name is _______ and I'm a pick-up artist" and just walk away.

Or you can make it interesting by opening with "Hey, did you know I'm a pick up artist?"

Who cares if they know, attraction isn't a choice and bitch-shields can be melted.

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That sounds incredibly creepy.

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like mystery said he got called out on it by some gurl and she put on a bitch shield for him and even though he told her he was she was still talking to him and into him

being a pua is not going to mess up your chances actually it can convey High Value by letting them know u do it and they will assume u get laid more than ever

people become puas to improve their lives

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Hmm. . . I've been called a bunch of things but this "book" thing never came up. Alright . . . how about something like:

K: Oh yeah, did you?
hb:Blah blah blah
K: My favorite part of the book is the section with the picture diagrams of 2 girls and the seating arrangement. Because you know . . . I'm pretty confident that I can steal the bar stool from just about anybody these days. Hey, let's go snake those barstools from those guys! We can do this . .

Umm.... This is Beschatten you are talking about...


Love ya brotha!!!

CK

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Its happened only once to me in the early days, and to tell you the truth it was a great conversation and i spent waaaaay to much time with that girl.

I would love to get called out a bit more, its a lot of fun

Honesty can only get you so far ... truth is, there's no get-out clause. Self-parody always saves me. You tell her you haven't finished it yet then ask her how it ends.

When I get called out I'm like "Hell yeah I've read it". I know most of the guys in the book... hell [names omitted] are facebook friends.

True enough, I do have a couple of guru's as facebook friends, but it's pretty much irrelevent since a lot of people do. But I've just turned a shit test into a DHV.

And then I wait for her to say something and be like "Hey, have you ever read Cosmopolitan?" and then I'm like "I thought you were one of those!"

Well i think what you could have done is sort of let him down gently. Ask him if spells work, or who lies more something that would get the point across that you know about the game without being to blunt.

Failing that (as he sounds abit elusive) You should (in the future) stop the guy and give him some pointers, in a constructive criticism sort of way. I mean as long as your nice about it there shouldn't be a problem. But it all really depends on how you feel at the time.

mediocrity should never be encouraged lol but yar I actually like it when I am called on it kinda shows a degree of intelligence as well

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