And I'm not joking.

Assuming you're decent looking. Dress your best, act to impress, have all your outergame ready.

Now go to any gay bar or club. And have the full PUA walk, et al. Guys will start hitting on you. It's quite incredible. I've read all the PUA work in the world, but nothing gives you a true understanding of how it feels to have endless streams of mostly revolting men hitting on you. Being straight, you'll have no attraction to any of them.

But notice one thing. The ones you find interesting to hang out with will be the kind women are attracted to (generally), except for the fact that looks don't matter at all to you. Rich are interesting... all of the things PUAs recommend to make yourself attractive, you will notice, are things that make your 'suitors' interesting to you (albeit not attractive). Super alpha's are interesting too.

I know it sounds weird, and don't ask why I was at a gay club (I was with a multimillionaire owner of a local corporation fyi), but for God's sake, give it a shot. You will truly understand the dynamics so much better. It realy helped me for sure. It's worth a try. (And if you have really low self esteem, it will help your ego )

Seriously.

I actually love this post! Ive been to a gay bar to sarge multiple times because the girls there usually dont have the bitch shields up and approaching them is quite easy and fun especially when you make friends with their gay friend and he brings you over .

I would also recommend this to almost everyone, its very fun and actually if your feeling down on yourself this will give you a confidence boost.

and you your drinks spiked, leading into your loss of virginity from behind

Really? really? Its like any other club except your now the female, you should try it sometime.

Meaning you're now out of the closet.

I totally missed the part about going to a gay bar at first, so I was totally confused to begin with, lol. I agree though, I've been to a couple of gay bars and if there are straight women there, they are typically very easy to talk to, as well as this being an interesting chance to see things from the other side. I learned a ton about interacting with people by hanging out with girls and their gay friends, or even just gay guys by themselves. It's great for when you meet girls with gay friends, cause you are totally comfortable and can win them over, which makes the girl more willing to hook up with you.

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Yes, I agree that gay bars are awesome. The whole PUA things started in the gay community. In the straight community money and power has been what traditionally attracts females to males. The gay community is pretty much anything goes!

I am just glad that we don't have Euro men on here who would threaten to kill us all. Gotta love the guys yelling, "This isn't America!" in Serbian.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YiSOG2Ow_w4

The whole peacocking and cocky business comes straight from 70's era NYC gay palaces. We owe a lot to gay men.

Understanding how girls feel when they go out to clubs is very important. It's a great conversation topic and because you're on the level with them it's really cool.