AT LAST I can refer to experience! ^^ I softcore sarged yesterday, it was a large set with subgroups but i knew 2 obstacles abit the target was with a friend whom i knew and we talked random shit that could have been spoken between strangers.
I used bodylanguage a LOT to demonstrate almost everything (pasted^^)
But I kept me under control, and I felt that I was inn when the target started redoing my gestures, poking playfully, and poeples stopped to overhear what it was that made the gals laugh
I allso circulated around and left the target several times witch ended out in her asking me to follow as soon as she moved anywhere.
so the tips is:If you use gestures do it all the way - Wide and without any limitations, when you get attention from new people you propably "send out center of attention beams", or get poked or teased to give attention, and this is when you propably have hookedthem.
But dont take it for bulletproof, I dont have the experience to promis it