Hey guys. I've been a PUA since high school, and I've begun to find that this mindset screws up my relationships.

I'm good looking, extremely confident, and when girls fall, they fall hard. I look for confident, independent girls... but once I have them, they always turn into lovesick doormats. I get bored, miss the game, and move on. I think the longest I've lasted is two months.

So two questions.

1) Any idea how to get girls to keep their feist, spunk, backbone... whatever you want to call it? A friend jokingly told me to keep them at arms length by being a complete asshole every now and then... but seriously. I'm tired of girls who are hopelessly into me.

2) Have any veteran PUA's learned some tricks to 'turn off' the buffet approach mindset? I mean, when I'm committed to a girl, that's all I can think. I'm tied down. No matter how much I like her, the thought of not being able to go out and chase/seduce randoms gets to me.

Thanks.