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| berettagtz | PostPosted: Thu Oct 16, 2008 6:44 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Thu Oct 16, 2008 6:09 am Posts: 61 | | I'm not sure if this should be in this section or I'm not even sure if this is appropriate for the entire forum.
I want to make this as short as possible. I don't think you guys are interested in hearing my entire story.
So my problem is that I still live with my parents and they don't allow me to date american women. They've gone as far as suggesting that they would disown me and things like that if I dated anyone other than my own kind (race-white, european origin)... crazy right?
It wouldn't be such a big problem if there was a big community of my kind here where I live. But in a city that has a population of 50000, there is not a lot of my kind here. - which sucks by the way.
Most of my friends are american, and a lot of them are chicks. Few of those chicks have indicated they are interested in me either by subtle IOIs or explicit verbal communication.
I spent my entire past summer doing school work overseas with a girl who is an american and we really had a connection going on (she's a 9.5 btw). And since we live in the same city and go to same school... she wanted to date me. She explicitly asked me to date her... and all I could say to that was that I wasn't ready for a relationship. Later, she found out, thanks to my "loyal" friend, that my parents are against me dating american women. - which of course, made me look like a wuss.
so now the game part...
I've read David Deangelo's books, The Game, The Mystery Method, watched hours of videos, and I feel like I know too much when it comes to pick up. I field tested and perfected a lot of techniques. But sometimes I sit down and think... what do I do with this stuff when ultimately I cannot use it? I am limited to an extremely small pool of women and this is not what the game is all about... The game is all about having unlimited possibilities... so finally, I get to my question which I wanted to ask about 50 sentences ago... What should I do?
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| Ezo | PostPosted: Thu Oct 16, 2008 8:17 am | |
| Offline | | Moderator |  | Joined: Sun Nov 11, 2007 2:04 pm Posts: 4238 | | So you are still living with your hyper-racist parents right?
My advice: Get a life! Take action! I would not advise anyone (any girl) to date a guy in your situation.
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| Sexcellent | PostPosted: Thu Oct 16, 2008 4:23 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Zealot |  | Joined: Fri Jul 11, 2008 9:41 am Posts: 380 AOL: Sexcellent Location: Long Island | | part of growing up is realizing that you have to make your own decisions about what's right and wrong, and you can't always trust your parents' judgment. that being said... i'm not sure what religion you are, but in Christianity, 1 of the ten commandments says to honor your parents. i don't think this means blindly obeying every wish they have for you. i think it means that when you make your own decisions, you must respect their judgment. when you are young it is good to obey your parents, but there comes a time in everyone's life where you start to realize that you might be right on something, and your parents might actually be wrong.
my suggestion is that you weigh the costs and benefits of following your parents' blueprint for your life at this point. whats more important to you? satisfying their wishes? or being with American hb's? once you know the answer to that question, i think it will put the issue into perspective.
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| Facher | PostPosted: Sat Oct 18, 2008 10:01 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Addict | Joined: Sun Mar 23, 2008 6:20 pm Posts: 240 | | You can still game; as in fuck-buddy or ONS etc. Relationships are harder. I have a problem with ignorant people, really I do, I hate them.
Check your current laws in your region. Is there anything that you could use against them? The EU has this law that gives children the right to their own private life, and swedish law prevents parents form using their childrens own money (as in earned), and prevents parents from taking childrens stuff (as in earned/bought with earned money). we also have laws against abuse, not giving food etc.
Yes - im suggesting that you take this seriously and prepare for WAR. Perhaps you're 17, then don't.. just wait until you posess the legal responsibility over your own life (it's 18 over there, isnt it?).
My friend had troubles with his parents.. though it wasnt GF-related.. they just treated him like shit, as in leaving him with no freedom. He's currenyly breaking loose, thanks to some help from both me and flashback.info.
If you do not agree with me, then please don't do as I suggest =). Some people love their parents, I don't give a shit who they are, if they force me to live a life that I can't stand. _________________ Style: Who do you think lies more...
DeAngelo: What's up fool?
AFC: Does this rag smell like chloroform to you?
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| berettagtz | PostPosted: Mon Oct 20, 2008 11:08 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Thu Oct 16, 2008 6:09 am Posts: 61 | | I can still game and I game a lot, believe me. I've had all kinds of success, from phone closes to fuck closes.
As far as freedom goes, I have it. I go out whenever I want, they don't care about that. If I wanted to, I could date someone without my parents even knowing it. But that's not the point. Girls always want to meet my parents and I just tell them that it's not time yet or some other excuse.
But I figured that there will be a point in my life where I meet someone who is more than just a victim of my game. And maybe I will want to get more serious with that person. I guess I won't know until that time comes.
Until then, I will keep gaming because it's just too much fun not to!
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