| PUA is an amazing thing. It gives us women, confidence, and entertainment. I myself went from being that lame, pudgy kid in the back of the class to that guy that everyone loves with the body of iron. However, when we acquire these skills, we (at least I) seem to fall into a lifestyle far different then from whence we came. I have recently found myself in a situation like nothing I have ever read or have ever faced before. The situation is simple. Something the lot of you have probably faced a million times. Girl A. Or Girl B.
Girl A: Girl A started out as a friend of mine. She was my first successful escape from LJBF. We went from good friends to me just coming from her house after having her all over me. The problem is this: she has a boyfriend. He has been present since before I came into her life as a romantic interest. She has been a side job, if you will, for a few months now. She keeps telling me that she will break up with him soon, however nothing happens. I care for her a lot. Maybe even love her. If we were to end our romantic relationship, it would be the end of our friendship. (We have tried to kill it before and it always came back with force) Throughout this whole thing, my goal was to date her. However now I am not so sure... (I know how that whole situation sounds, but trust me on this one. It runs deeper then all of that. What I wrote is the general outlook.)
Girl B: Girl B is an HB that I met just in September. She sat a few seats down from me in chemistry class and she caught my eye. I had a few more classes with her and I began to game her just because, well, I can. What started out as casual flirting turned into heavy flirting and IOIs from both of us. For example, today in ceramics class (we're both in highschool), we were doing that pottery wheel thing. We ended up throwing clay and smearing it all over each others open skin and clothes. (Sounds rediculous but it actually was a great routine - lot of kino/DHV/ect) We both had a great time. I'm pretty attracted to her and from what I can tell, it is mutual.
Situation: Recently, me and Girl A have been having a rough point. These usually fix themselves in a few days but this time has been weird. Girl B is in the prime spot to advanced on. Any longer and I may fall into LJBF which as we all know is nigh impossible to escape. Do I remedy Girl A or advance on B?
The only conclusion I could obtain was to move in on B and see how things go. If they go well, stay, if not, keep A in my life.
Gentlemen, this world of ours is as much a blessing as a curse. As much as we are a part of it, we are trapped by it. Opinions, thoughts, comments, please. As foolish as it may seem, I've been bumming pretty hard over this, so no matter how it sounds, take it easy on me.
Cheers,
Rapture _________________ If you wait to do everything until you're sure it's right, you'll probably never do much of anything.
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