highschool sucks!!! i have about 100 days left of school and everyone's formed an opinion on me already from how i used to be and im not in the popular group and i get bullied! is it me or is this a lost cause???? also this is a small school where everyone knows me. at the start of school ive been in fights and lost, sat at the front of the bus, and been rejected by a girl that wasent popluar. there a few of the things that people made there first impressions on.

you know what im not much better now! im still bullied although i tend to stick up for myself and not let them push me around and alot of its stopped. ive stopped sitting at the front of the bus as much i still sit there sometimes. im still not in the popular group but im away from the freaks. ive improved my body language, but developed more nervous habits im trying to deal with. i havent opened a single set in school, hey but at least i came close to having a girlfriend but then she said she dident feel "that way about me to one of my mates", ive only ever got off with one girl. and no, i have not got laid yet. SO...

I FEEL LIKE A COMPLETE FAILURE! highschool is not worth the effort anymore, whenever i try to build up a good rep bullys just take it away. but hey, theres worse off people than me? RAFWHSHGFWR!!

i hope this was an entertaining read and sorry about all the ranting. (oh and if u cant tell im bieng sarcastic in the title, but ironicly it is very easy for popular guys..)

I had a similar situation to yours. In 9th and 10th grade I was really popular with everyone. I loved it. Everyone knew who I was. You could've gone into any class and mentioned my name and 3 different conversations would have started. At the end of 10th grade, beginning of 11th grade I realized no one actually liked me. I was well known because I was the annoying kid.

In high school, I was a floater. I was able to talk to all the different social cliques, but because of that I never really formed strong friendships with everyone. By senior year, I just gave up. I wasn't about to try to change anyones opinion on me. I was so close to college, I would just wait it out and then change who I was in college.

This really worked for me. I know have best friends in college and that makes me so happy. The best thing about college, is you've never been with these people before. They know nothing of you before hand. You can be ANYONE you WANT to be. Go out and be the BEST person YOU can be.

My advice, just wait it out. You're almost graduated. High School is meant to be filled with drama. There's no way to escape it. Just be sure to change who you are in college which I know you can do. If you have any questions or whatever, feel free to PM me.

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This is exsactly my situation!!! great stuff! im currently looking at pua stuff to do with college now but i really need some experiance beforehand :L

i was really popular in high school but then i moved in year 8 and i was a complete freak, then i came into the decent clique but the popular people completly shunned me but now im aquanances with everyone but not friends, only a few people ive really connected with and i would only still call them friends which was kinda the most depressing part of this.

Damn! hit on the younger girls like freshmans or sophmores and if a bully comes up and tryes to amog you amog him back (use tyler durdens amog techinques) and if you get amoged and dont know how to respond write it in a notebook and then post it on here and we'll help you think of something to say back to him or just think of something on your own. Your going to college anyway and not going to see anybody from your high school ever again so why not use your high school as a training ground for you? I mean if you fuck up or something whos going to give a shit? Most people think about themselfs and not about others, anyways good luck bro.

Word of advice. Don't do what I did.

I got fed up with being the kid everyone knew and thought was cool, but no one was really good friends with. Everyone knew of me, but didn't know me.

My solution? Well long story short, I got kicked out of school, and now I'm a legend there.

Not recommended however. Makes things much more difficult in the long run, albeit, it's great for short term goals.

If you really want something to do, go for a "Senior Most", and make that your goal. Otherwise, just stick it out to college. Go to a medium sized school. You'll be fine.

In all seriousness, if you did manage to get with a girl now, I'm guessing you'd want to date her, seeing as you're not used to sucess with women. You'd date her for your "100 days" and then go off to college where you'll be depressed and in a worse situation than if you had just stuck it out.

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Fuck it, don't even worry about it. Don't see your failures as failures, see them as successfully learning what you did wrong. High School is so dumb, ive fucked around all of high school and Im just now realizing how dumb it is. I should have just focused on my school work instead of trying to get laid by these skanks that arent even worth a second of my time. Its such a short period of your life, learn from it! Have I made mistakes in high school? Hell fucking yes. Have I learned from it? Sure as fucking shit I did.

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I just wanna fuck bad bitches, for all the nights I never had bitches.

thanks guys, ive decided im goin to just go for it now make tons of mistakes and learn but what should i start off tryin?

Don't go into it with that mindset. Go into it with the mindset that you're going to try things and not care about the out come. The other way is too negative and you'll never get any results that way. Just do it for the sake of practice and roll with the punches.

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I had a miserable time in high school, especially with women.

My senior year I found the community.

Towards the end of the year I met a hot blonde who had never heard the negative talk about me, we went to prom, and she stole my virginity.

Nuff said =)

*try to find a chick who doesn't know you and go for it

-Dream

I would say that you need to fix your attitude. You cannot keep getting down on yourself. Not only does it make you feel sorry for yourself, women find it UNATTRACTIVE.

I am a junior in highschool.

I have a self esteem issue. You could probably call it an inferiority complex. I also have a slight studder when I speak, especially when I am talking in public or to people i dont know. The only difference between us is that I accepted these things and decided that it was time for a change.
Use this forum. The advice here is priceless. Dont expect people to always come to your rescue, if you so deeply desire the knowledge do succede with women, seek it out.

PS, I had a bullying issue too, although it was when i was younger. Learn how to fight. I think every guy needs to know how to fight. Regardless of the art. It could save your life someday. I dont mean to brag but people treat me with an unspoken respect because of this and has definately spared me from many fights that could have broken out, not that i couldnt handle myself

Get involved. Play sports. Get into hobbies . . . any hobbies. Play music. Learn guitar. Stop blaming others for this situation and don't focus on this "situation". If you're interesting, others will acknowledge it. If you're easy to pick on, they will pick on you. Unless you change your personal frame, college or any life after that will not matter. What makes you think college or even the work place after that will be any different? The mannerisms of people around you will change as they mature but their perceptions will always remain the same.

High School and what I call closed environments are difficult to PUA in because everyone knows each other one mistake can be futile (now I am not saying impossible, but its not a training ground if you want success). While in a bar you can do what ever you want because at the end of the day it won't matter. I was one of the nice guys in high school and many girls liked me from what I heard but because I was so shy and isolated... I never made anything from that situation which I regret in a way, now in college I am trying to change things even though it won't come over night, generally in these closed environments you have to take things a lot slower than normal because people have to focus on academics, you have to get friend approval, keep reputation, etc. But if you think everyone hates you, you need to make some changes...

For example, Bullies won't bully you unless you are a easy target. I knew a kid at school everyone made fun of because while he was shy like me, he reacted to every "joke" they made about him. No one made fun of me because I simply ignored it, or stood up for myself in a non-violent cool fashion. I was no fun, compared to this kid, hence the result.

Now I am sure a little change in attitude can do miracles, if you are really willing to Game. First you must fix your reputation by being kind and nice to people (I can hear you saying WTF) but its true, doing simple things, like helping someone with homework, holding the door open for other people, and saying good day to people once in a while will change the way people think of you. Ignore bullies, and I mean ignore them, once you start building a good reputation bullies will avoid you because they don't want to ruin their own.

Hope that helps a bit,
Anyway, if high school seriously doesn't work, College is way different!

Thats unfortunate but you cant give up you've got to change your out-look. You are the image you project you can't walk around like a defeated man. Like my dad told me never let them see you sweat

I advise you to get into an activity like martial arts you'll learn something and its a great confidence boost

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One of the most important things that you can do is make sure you are having fun. Im in hs and its funny because me and my persona is probably the opposite of you. Im an athlete have many friends, and i get invited over to ppls hosues for their ""parties"" which usually are lame..

but this didnt really happen to me over night.

what i realized was that the key to being able to hang with these people is to basically make one friend in their group. All you need is one friend who is a generally cool dude and your in. Its funny because now the girls who did not really talk to me before look at me and ask me questions and stuff out of the blue. Its now my lack of game that is preventing me from doing anything with it... but slowly its coming along =P

one thing though man, and this is the most important thing that i have to say, is that All this stuff doesnt really matter. The bottom line is have fun. Be like water man, if someone trys to amog you can go around it and respond with a positive comment or make a joke out of it. be happy. Its the midnset that is contagous and that gives you the oppertunitys that you are really looking for. If you are happy and living your life trying to just have fun, the people you are around really doesnt matter because nomatter whomever you are with, YOU will be having a good time and YOU will be happy.

With this mindset you can talk to whoever you want to talk to but dont see it as if your gaming someone or as if your trying to "get in", see it as im living to have fun and be happy and through the current actions that im taking, im pursuing my life mantra.

This is kind of corny but i think of the TI song that goes "just live your life"

NVR give up man, theres only the present that you can live in. The future and the past is all imagination. If you try to put something off you will remain putting it off....

This is semi contradictory but... you can set goals just make sure , in the current "moment" which you live, you are activly doing something.... and not putting it off for someother time that really doesnt exist...

i dident mean that last reply in a negitive way atall but whatever thanks for all the great comments