first of all, sorry for the amount of options, i couldve gone one for a while.

I am curious to know the reasons people joined PU. for me it was to better myself. i was horrible with women, and am working on being able to talk to them. i realise now my bad habits and the effect they had on me and women.
i used to think, when i get my braces off it will be easy to get women. nope!
i used to think, one i finish school it will be easy. nope! still the same, just a different scene.


why did you join the community??? to get laid more? to get laid once? to be able to get a gf? to be able to meet more people? to do this, that blabla. any strange ones post them down, i think there will be some curious responses.

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Its not failure, its a learning challenge.

I dont even remember how I fell into this, probably, just found out accidentally on the internet

but Im a guy who believes in selfknowlodge and constant evolution of self
I needed to be more social, and wanted to be better with women, feel better about myself and everything
also, Im really ambicious about women, I just want the hot ones, so I need to know what Im doing and be good at it

I wanted to understand more, learn. I could never understand why guys who were taller, better looking etc couldnt even talk to the type of girl i was dating.
I wanted to be more confident around women, and actually understand what i was doing rather than just thinking it was luck.

I wanted to be able to attract the girls that I encountered in life without ending up "just friends" with them because of all the things I was doing wrong. I never wanted tons of women, I never cared about seeking them out, I was just tired of not being able to get the girls I would already meet in life.

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"The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch

~ Rye

"to be more succesfull in any social interaction"

And especially when it comes to pick up girls, I've always been a social guy!

The "last straw" so to speak, that actually physically lead me to the community was my inability to not be just friends with women.

What was it really that lead to all this?

I craved affection. I feared that no one liked me, and everyone was just using me as a means to an end. I was an idealist. I wanted the "happily ever after" ending, but also realized that it does not exist.
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Has the community helped?

In every way possible. I realize now that life is what I make of it. I enjoy life much more, and can't wait for the future, rather than dreading it. I've met some incredible people, done incredible things, and had a blast all along the way to where I am now. I wouldn't change it for anything.
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I attribute almost everything I am now to the community. Before, I was that one guy, who was pretty smart. Shy. Cute even. But no one wanted to really get to know.

Now, I'm everything I wanted to be. I'm the leader of the pack. The center of attention. Intelligent. Handsome. Successful. Personable.

I've gotta cut this short, cus Stacey just called, and is on her way over from across the street, so hopefully it all makes sense!

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Mimicking an artist never leads to true success... However becoming an artist mimicked is true success