After being in the game for over 6 months I don't really have many f-closes to show for it. I got to be honest and say that im kind of stuck and need some guidance.

I have been practicing a lot in the field and now since im back at college, I do all my game in classes and while walking on campus. I have met A LOT of women to the point where I never really call someone back because I would meet someone else and get lost in that, work and other activities.

I know im being a pussy by not calling girls back and getting day 2's...However, I never really know what to say on the phone or where/what to do for day 2's. I guess its partly because I dont want to mess something up thats possible which is baddd thinking lol. I need some guidance guys and how you managed to get through this if you had to do so.

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Ok, so you are scared that if you call and make the EFFORT to set up a day 2 you are going to screw things up? So you just don't call at all... screwing it up..... See what I am getting at?

I think one thing that may help you is to quit thinking about each woman as a sexual interest. That may be putting unwarranted pressure on yourself causing you to not put forth the effort to close. Think of these women as just regular people. Quit thinking sooooo much about that wet pink hole between their legs.

Send out a mass text to all of the girls you have failed to set up day 2's and see who sends you a text back. Relax about the situation, and quit putting that added pressure on yourself.

Good Luck bro,

CK

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As far as approaching too much goes: You can't really do too many sets unless you aren't calibrating afterward. If you just go out and do as many approaches as possible every day you'll get nowhere. You have to backtrack afterward and calibrate so you know where you went wrong, which parts of you game were money and which were complete crap.

K so im new at this all, but i've been reading and i was out today and a switch fliped on!, i see this hb, maybe a 7, and gears turn. "go talk to her" get her attention... blah blah...
any way my friends filling an application and gives me a opener pretty much via a question, i get her attention with it, and it goes along the lines of this...

Mili': hey what time does this place open and such?
7: we'll we come in at 5am and ...blah blah, blank stuff.
So in the least i have her looking at me. I'm at a 45' talking semi over the shoulder, smirkin slightly...
At this point i was thinking, bam, ask her when she gets off...
but i stuck it.

not sure how to make or break that one since i have a hard time identify'in my own self yet since i just started.. input

Hmmm, what context is this, like school or just in a random public place?
When she answered, you coulda said thanks and then asked her what she does for a living, or perhaps her name, or done a trad. introduction. Since my PUA education, I would be inclined to just ask a q or make a statement kinda at a tangent, like "why is it whenever you fill in a form you always write carefully but still mess it up?" and stuff like that which gets a reaction of agreement (if that happens to them) or humour (if it doesn't).

it was at starbucks, she was running the regi and no line
but ya, i like the tangent idea. if i was to go back how should i roll it

bump
(ps, i been reading a bit more and come into a few ideas of how to do things, but some of them arent things i have in a comfort zone of using yet, such as eye contact, dhv, and overcoming aa. At the moment i just want to build a open ended routine to get rapport, no # close or f-close, just a little C-building.)

Hey bro, try not to thread jack. If you have a question, post it up in the newbie section. You can post threads there.

CK

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great, didnt know, i just found the most relative topic and slipped in. jack ass move but ty