Girl: Do these jeans make my ass look fat?
Ty: Well I don't think a pair of jeans can make your ass look fat hun, but do these boxers make my balls look small?
Girl: well sure babe I told you to get the higher thread count lol
Ty: hmmm well how about you give me some of your threadcount from those jeans it'll make your ass look smaller and my balls look bigger eh?

What is this an example of? Here I'll give you another one.

(I had taken a girl to the botanical gardens)
Girl: I'm sooo sunburned!
Ty: oh really where at?
Girl: like my face and only one of my shoulders probably from you shoving me in the bush
Ty: lol well obviously its from shoving you in the bush I was nice enough to save one of your shoulders from getting burned, see I got your back.
Girl: Well obviously you should shove me into bigger bushes
Ty: Actually I like small bushes why don't you get a smaller bush?
Girl: My bush is nonexistent
Ty: ohhh sexy I bet nair's stock just tripled
Girl: yes I even got enough for you
Ty: oh joy
Girl: oh yes, be over in a bit
Ty: aw shit

Understand the pattern yet? The common thing between both of these scenarios is the playful banter going back and forth. Learning flirty banter is possible and will help you in many situations. It will increase your natural social intuition, your sense of humor, and will make a girl attracted to you and comfortable with you very quickly. Generally we only playfully tease our close friends like this, but if you can learn to tease a woman in the same way you do friends while still being sexual with it then a girl will feel as if she has known you for much longer than she actually has. Teaching banter skills is very similar to teaching how to have a sense of humor, however there are a few differences. The first is that banter can be learned very quickly as it is nothing much more than arguing with a smile. The key to banter is a playful attitude. Think about how you would tease a little sister if you have one, or if you don't go babysit a child or work at a daycare for a bit. One of the purest sources of playfulness that I've learned from is children. People seem to lose this playful nature when they become adults. Authority figures in their attempts to control us and make us conform to patterns of behavior they believe will help us tend to punish playfulness because many times it leads to undesirable behavior. Children have not had this part of them killed yet, and the things they can teach us about letting our playful side out are quite amazing. If you aren't comfortable with children around a lack of playfulness could be the reason. You may say Ty, that's all fine and good, but I still think I can't banter because of my intelligence: Ty, I'm not smart enough to banter, I've never been quick witted. I am way too serious to do banter very easily. Ah you aren't witty huh, well that's fine neither am I. It's not really about being quick witted its about using your imagination in a logical way. Another useful thing about banter is that it is very similar to shit tests except you are giving each other shit tests in good fun.

Ty: Man slushees give me bitchin brain freezes
Girl: maybe your brain is always frozen! :p
Ty: it's possible that'd be awesome you should drink like 6 slushees and we could be brain freeze buddies.
Girl: I'm not sure I want my brain frozen
Ty: Hey, you want some slushee?
Girl: Sure drinks some slushee
Ty: haha too late one sip and your brain is frozen we brain freeze buddies now.
Girl: lol hmm, so I guess we can never kiss because your brain might melt and you could die.
Ty: actually if you melted my brain down I could become a genius and cure cancer, you are for curing cancer right?
Girl: yea I guess so
Ty: Well I guess the fate of the world is in whether you kiss me or not
Girl: hmmm
Ty:, but screw it I like my brain freeze too much to let you kiss me anyways haha, plus girls have cooties

I will finish that here, but you notice how I through in yet another line that would cause more banter at the end there. It's very easy to do just say things that are surprising and playful and argue them out. If you are always serious this may be of some difficulty to you, but fear not it is quite easy if you just put a few minutes practice in every day. You don't even have to banter with hot girls just yet, try it on people that won't judge you first just until you get the hang of it. I'm sure you will grow to love it.

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Banter is THE SHIT. It is awesome for attraction because the girl becomes obsessed with validating herself. When opening a set, it is great too. But you need to be careful not to let the banter to continue, you want to get into a stage of comfort once attraction is developed. That can be difficult if you are too hard on the banter.

Very good.

Very good.