Okay, this is kind of an awkward situation.

A year ago, I met this girl through some friends of mine. She was the best friend of MY best friend's girl, so we were both third wheels kinda. I made her laugh a bunch when we were hanging out, and I just figured she liked talking to me. This was all before I started reading into the PUA stuff.

Anyways, so I add her on myspace, and she has a problem with replying to messages. I'm a very patient person, but this is one thing that just bugs the hell out of me, especially when it's a question they aren't replying to. She always reads them, just rarely ever replies. So, I deleted her.

Recently, looking through friends' pages, come across her page. I add her. She does the SAME exact thing as she used to. Always posts bulletins asking to talk to her, etc.

She is the type of girl that recognizes her problems [she's single], she hates it, and yet still pushes guys away that are interested. I know I could change her perspective if given the opportunity to talk to her, but I never get the chance. I don't want to get angry, because I'm then more responsive and she'll have reason to not want to talk. But I also don't want to try again and again with no results, because then, again, I'm stuck in the submissive position. If I delete her, again, it's just myspace so it's not going to be a big deal to her and she won't know what she's missing.

So my question is, how can I try to get into her world? I'm not sure if she's just entirely not interested in talking to me or what. I was thinking about posting something intriguing as a bulletin or something, but I don't really know what would interest her. Whenever I reply to her bulletins she doesn't reply, but I'm sure that'd change if I interested her with my reply. But like I said, they're always complaining about something, so I dunno what to say to that.

Help! Thanks

myspace can be a good tool for gathering intell. Read her profile and find something shes into that you know about and then talk to her about it. An example of this would be say her profile song is Toby keith's shes a hottie, then you msg her saying something like omg i love toby keith too, i went to one of his shows last year and boom dhv. or say shes in to family guy ask her if shes ever seen the one where peter blah blah blah. hope this helps

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No she doesn't... she just doesn't reply to yours.
Well yeah, nothing changed. You did the exact same thing expecting different results.
You don't want to get into her world, you want her in yours.


Pretty much, you can't go wrong with what Head First said. I actually am all for that. But me personally, I ALWAYS get a response from women on myspace. Because I've stopped caring...I've become indifferent. I send women the most outlandish things. Like if there's a girl who is EXTREMELY attractive, I'll comment on how she forgot to wipe the eye boogers out her eyes before snapping the shot.

Of course I get back the INSULTS (and boy do I get them), but then the script is flipped back onto them, I either act EXTREMELY offended, or I let them know I will bust their balls, blah, blah, blah.... and wa lah! Attraction.

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I would advise you NOT to do any of that unless you know how to recover from it.

I didn't do the same exact thing, I'm an entirely different person now. Before I was needy kid who needed a girlfriend, now I'm a self-sufficient person who doesn't need anyone and I have everything I need. I'll bring her into mine, as soon as I can talk to her without being ignored. I've done negs. I don't care if I get a response in the overall picture, but it just baffles me. I want to assume it's just me for her sake. I've DHV'd. I've done everything I can do.

I don't want to play to her ego by agreeing with things she likes or whatever, that's what she wants. Eh whatever, I'll just neg a picture or two and wait a week. No reply, and I'll just be done with her and not try again if she really doesn't want to befriend me. I can live with not talking because there's no reason to talk. It bugs me to be added and then ignored.