Ok we all know that you need to not convey intrest, but I'm going on there with out any armor so to speak, to many times, the I get stuck and the girl takes control, I'm reading the Mystery Method right now.

I need tips from for these objectives

to start off

The Pick up-attract the women

Mid game, how do I establish comfort, trust and connection

End game- how do I structure opportunity to be seduced.

Take it slow man. You are trying to learn everything at once, and that doesn't work. Its a step-by-step process for a reason, to learn these by the steps. For the moment - besides what you read in MM - don't worry about seduction, you need to learn the first two steps first.

I'm going to assume from what you said that you don't have problems approaching, and that you need work in attracting the girl. After you've opened her, start running the routines you have prepared and such. Listen to her reactions and be quick to cut in with a witty neg on something she says. All that added together will create the attraction. Also, be sure to memorize some interesting facts that not everyone knows, just random stuff - I suggest things related to pop culture, because girls like to gossip. Being up to date on pop culture happenings can help you avoid awkward silence and also transition you into comfort.

Comfort is about creating an emotional connection. Where in you and her find commanalities. Comfort is heart-to-heart fluff talk. You find your similarities, and how you relate to each other.

Work with that for now, and if you have any other questions feel free to ask.

My Problem is I just cant come up with witty things to say on the spot, I just can't come up with cocky funny. I'm not cocky funny.

I think there was another poster here with some cocky funny issues. Take a seminar or . . . just realize that this isn't really about being funny as in "ha ha ha". It shouldn't even be called cocky funny because your primary objective is not to make the girl laugh. The objective is to make her feel sexy and desirable and there should be no doubt in her mind that it is YOU who finds her sexy and desirable in a real fucking cocky way. So really . . . the "laugh" is just a one of several outcomes of this routine.

There are plenty of examples of cocky funny on this forum. You can just recite a few to yourself and figure out what makes it "cocky funny". Above all, don't lose yourself in the monkey comedian role. Again, "Funny" is not the goal.

"Monkey Comedian" = the dorkey guy in those horror movies who does anything and everything to get a laugh out of a group and is always the first to DIE. NOBODY misses the "Monkey Comedian".

Do one element at a time

Master each bit separately and in isolation

Don't attack the whole thing at once

One thing at a time

remember

Rome wasn't built in a day.