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It's usually better to wait for names make her want to tell you her name don't just ask for it it looks like ur just trying to pick her up.
hey mr silly... we are not discussing those tactics here, just opinion openers in loud clubs. and how the hell would she ask your name if you didnt open first?
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And am also not discussing direct openers here.... so am not looking for the best direct opener, because i know they can work as well..
although you can state here that you think direct openers are better for this kind of environment than opinion openers and discuss that...
i think the "who lies more, men or women" is one of the easiest opinion openers in loud clubs...
but any opinion opener cannot be used in direct form: you cant just walk to directly to a girl out of nowhere and expect to do an opinion opener while showing disinterest... you already opened directly by walking towards her and thus already showing interest... opinion openers only work by saying them over your shoulder with disinterested bodylanguage... like over your shoulder at the bar to a girl who's waiting for her drink anyway: hey... who lies more... men or women...?
i think most people get confused by using an opinion opener in the wrong place: when they actually open direct (by walking towards her)...
but i'm talking about using the opinion opener in the right way *over your shoulder* or *on somebody who you stumbled upon by accident*
for me it doesnt work that well in loud clubs even with the right angle and the right (disinterested) bodylanguage
what about you guys?