I have gotten the Erotic Lounge series, but it didn't really do it for me. Jazz seems a little over the top and hokey. I like playing Marvin Gaye just because it's funny, but it's rarely a mood setter.

I'm sure it's different for different situations, but what are your favorites and what have you found women respond best to? Caveats and addenda are welcome.

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Lo' there do I see My Father.
Lo' there do I see the line of My People, back to the beginning.
Lo' they do call to me, they bid me take my place among them.
in the Halls of Valhalla, where the brave may live forever.

I made a playlist with a bunch of various music I really like, as well as some suggestive stuff like Strip Tease by Hawksley Workman, Here in My Room by Incubus, Let's Fuck by Dope (lol). I can put it on and it's fine.

I also didn't feel like always listening to the same stuff, so I tried listening to the various playlists I have and it really didn't seem to affect it much aside from whether the girl didn't like the music. If she just couldn't get into the music, then it was harder to get into the mood, but once things got rolling, then it wasn't a factor anymore. I was with a girl that likes Marilyn Manson and so I tossed Manson and some Orgy on, which worked just as good as stuff that she didn't love, but that she didn't hate.

Personally, I thought music would be a bigger thing, especially because I'm a huge music lover and I generally prefer women that also love music. Instead, I find as long as she doesn't hate the music, then it really doesn't matter, just pick something that you both can enjoy and don't spend forever going through your collection with her (unless she's really interested), because then you look try-hard to please her and make things perfect. Once you start having sex, neither of you are gonna be listening to the music anymore anyways (unless you accidentally hit Random and you get some Britney Spears in there ).

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"The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch

~ Rye

If you want to be romantic, check out Robin Thicke.
Also, the best baby making song is "the rain" by k-os.

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It's hard to find but if you can get it, it is the most sexual piece in the world.

"Long Sweet Summer Nights" - Thorns

Other than that Dimmu borgir, Cradle of filth, darkthrone.... ..

Check out this band called Portishead.

It's basically sex music. There's no other way to describe it.

I also use some songs by Nine Inch Nails, Muse, and The Cure. You gotta pick and choose wisely with those selections, though.

I really don't play music while having sex. To be honest I used the Boogie Nights soundtrack a few times and it seemed to get the job done.

"Closer" by NIN

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Not a PUA just a girl offering my opinions/advice

He's a Pirate by Klaus Badelt. Makes your sex encounter dramatic (and piratey) as fuck. Throw her on the bed and board thon vessel, and pillage her while she's on her beam ends till she screams, "Avast!".

In seriousness, I don't really put music on when I'm having sex. Or pirate antics, for that matter. Referring to a condom as a masthead can be very confusing if she's not up to scratch on her nautical terms.

There was a girl in my dorm that said she wanted to have sex to that song and she was a "good girl", so I'm thinking this is a pretty good choice to toss on your playlist. If you can get it done during just one song though, then that's too bad, lol.

I wish "Inside of You" by Hoobastank had the same effect, cause it's basically the exact same message, just phrased differently.

"Something I Can Never Have" by NIN is good stuff too.

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"The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch

~ Rye

Bloodninja: Ok. I need your help getting excited though.
Bloodninja: Are you willing?
sweet17: What do you need me to do?
Bloodninja: I need you talk like a pirate.
sweet17: ???
Bloodninja: When I start to go limp... you say "HARRRR!!!"

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Lo' there do I see My Father.
Lo' there do I see the line of My People, back to the beginning.
Lo' they do call to me, they bid me take my place among them.
in the Halls of Valhalla, where the brave may live forever.

Totally laughed my ass off !

Sex music? No.
Mood music for pickup?!! Yes!

U2 - Mysterious ways
Aerosmith - Sweet Emotions
Manfred Mann's Earth Band - Davy's on the road again

The first song is just so right to the point ! "It's all right, its all right, its..., all right! She moves..!, in mysterious ways"

I never use music, nor do I even think of putting any on. I get totally freaky deaky and I love dirty talk, so I steer things in that direction if the girl will go that way, which many will. Some will talk dirty TO YOU without you even bringing it up first, which is awesome. That's better than music, in my opinion.

Now if I meet a girl that's into music or something, maybe I'll put some on, but I can see myself quickly losing interest in it. It's like the girl who left the TV on on the other room a few times. Big turn off. It bothered me.

santana -europe
prince-when doves cry

or just put on the amy whinehouse cd and usher also works pretty well(girls digg that music)

This depends totally on individual taste I think.

However if you can personally make the mood, vibe, and seduction flow to the music then the music only adds as an amplifier. Which is awsome.

I find that my personal favorite music to fuck to is slower electronic and techno.. and since most techno is super fast that means that slow techno is actually about normal paced music.. if that makes sense.

because techno is music that flows from one mood to the next and generally becomes more intense as the song progresses you can escelate the sex to the music.. this makes girls go nuts.. and i love to get into it..which is part of the reason they go nuts

try

Telepop Musik - Breathe ( slow sex forsure )
Paul Oakenfold - storm
Mason - exceeder
royksopp - higher
peaches - fuck the pain away ( although this songs kinda weird
crystal method - keep hope alive

there is some song that is pretty crazy called fuck on cocain



it is good to switch it up too though and play other songs besides techno. simple hip hop beats always are fun and easy to vibe to sexually

in the end whatever song you and your mate sexually vibe too together is what determines if it is good music for sex. obviously if your girl isnt into hard shit atreyu or slipknot might not be the best


and this may sound corny but the topgun love song -take my breath away- always gets the girls going

Let me let you guys sample a part of my "mood playlist." These songs melt the panties right off:

Glory Box by Portishead (this one's a beautiful live performance)
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Roads by Portishead
[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WQYsGWh_vpE[/youtube]

The Only Time by Nine Inch Nails
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Time is Running Out by Muse
[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=64wBgV62IKA[/youtube]