All of you know the type of girl i'm talking about. She's super cute (HB8 is what i'd rate her on a strict scale) but lives a far different kind of social life than you. I know her just well enough that I can tell you that she's vegetarian, doesn't drink or smoke, is in a couple dozen school clubs, has a 6.3 gpa, has those friends that are not really desirable at best, ... and ... swears on her mother's grave that she won't have sex til she's married. But, again, she's really attractive.

I think i know the answer to this one but i just wanted to see what you guys think about this before i dug myself a hole.

Would she ever put out, under any conditions, before she gets married?



The only way i could see this happening is if I dated her for like a year to build enough trust between us where she couldn't resist it anymore. But i don't really want to have to date for a year, not that she wouldn't make a good girlfriend, but that a year is too long to be tied up for in this stage of my life.

What do you guys think???

Depends why she has sworn off premarital sex. If she's thoroughly convinced she'll burn in hell for eternity if she has sex before marriage, then probably no. Otherwise, yeah, you just have to make her more attracted to you than she is to the romantic notion of meeting Prince Charming.

Ermmmm, you didn't say anything about her being a strict christian, just that she has values and won't mess around.

And i'm afraid it all comes down to you...depending on how much time you're willing to invest in her and how much you really care blah blah.

At the end of the day it all depends on what YOU are looking for, and you should always have it at the back of your mind that if you DO go for it, it could be time wasted if it doesn't work out.

My 2 cents
Peace.

It sounds like both you and her have completely different values. I dont see it working because how can a relationship work when both people want different things?

Do you really want to wait around a year for a piece of ass?

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