I don't normally get LMR, I usually find that I can get things to escalate into sex fine without any objections but...



However I recently encountered some basic LMR the standard "I don't think we should do this".

Nothing that abnormal. Now I haven't had much practise with LMR the only method I know is to just ignore them and go to sleep or do something boring. I didn't do that, I just kept going ignoring what she was saying and I just glided through it after 20 seconds or so.

Just wondering if that really was LMR and if so, how "normal" is that a method for dealing with it?

Incidently how quickly can emotions like anger be converted into lust?

I saw a film called "unfaithful" last night and one character who was a fair bit of a casanover while this chick is shouting at him just grabs her and begins making out with her. It made me wonder about whether emotions like anger can be converted.

Yeh ignoring it works but tends to require an atleast moderate ability to please the girl with what ever you are doing. As I imagine her saying that and you fumbling around isn't going to get you very far.

Another great way to deal with that brand of LMR is to agree with her but carry on anyway.

HB: 'We shouldn't be doing this'
You: 'You're right we shouldn't'

Then just keep going.

However from what I know of you Fin you tend to keep a strong frame, so I can't see you having too many problems with your method.

The anger thing is an interesting one. If the emotion is high enough and there is some tension in the anger as opposed to pure rage, a transfer to lust should theoretically hold. However in practice I cant say I have ever tried this. If she is swinging punches I would recommend possibly ducking and weaving before going in for the kiss.

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The anger thing is most definitely true in certain situations, for both parties. Just think of all of the great angry sex that couples have had over the generations. When it's a situation early with a woman you don't really know well, however, it can become more trouble than it's worth. The anger/lust thing flows both ways, and it can get ugly when it does.