Im from the states and at the place im working at over the summer, a girl from my college is working as a fellow intern. Now I know most people shun the workplace romance, but we're both only here temporaily for another month and then we go back to school. My college also does not have that many hott girls (this girl is a def HB8) so im working this girl to be a potential LTR. She has loads of hot friends too, which is good as well ;D.

So a little background info:She sits, honestly right in front of me separated by a small wall that is the cubicle. We are in an intern area with 5 people, she and all the interns are really shy and dont talk. I try to liven up the mood by talking, but the conversation usually doesnt last long. Today for instance, Its just me and her here in the office, and I feel weird not talking to her bc shes so close, but then again I dont want to talk too much? Does anyone else feel this situation is a bit awkward/weird?

Since I don't want to just shag her and leave and want to get a possible LTR with her, ive been playing it slow and not hitting on her TOO much (which ive seen is better for getting a LTR). We've had a few lunches alone, the last one which was pretty romantic (went to the park, sat down and talked about all sorts of things, connected and shared some good kino). Now I didn't want to escalate too fast because I see this girl 3 days a week. However, I also fear that if I don't act she will think i dont have to balls to go for her. For instance, we usually exchange this really strong and sexual eye contact. I notice that she smiles more at me than other people so I can tell theres some interest here. However, I told her we should go grab a drink after work today, but she gave a half-assed response like "Yea...depends on when I get out" or something like that. Im used to acting fast and I dont have as much experience trying to get a LTR so any help would be great!

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Well you're being pretty AFC about the whole situation.

Get her thinking. Talk to her one day, then the next day if she says something just give short replies and say something about you've got a lot of work to do. You're trying WAY to hard by the way you made it seem. Make yourself to be the prize.

Although you've already established a rapport and some kino, however so the first part doesn't really apply fully. Instead of asking her out for a drink tell her she's going to buy you a drink for putting up with her all day (then wink at her) Keep her on her toes.


Obviously since you're looking for a LTR there are several steps that you won't go through. Build a strong emotional connection, look for IOI's which you've apparently already gotten a few of.


However I will warn you not to look too deeply into her actions. She could be just being friendly. The workplace no matter if you're an intern or not is no place to mix pleasure with. You take one sign out of context and next thing you know you're charged with sexual harassment.

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thanks for the great response kry!

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bleh...she just ended up leaving early. All she said was "Alright im leaving now...i'll see you on monday". I just responded with indifference and said "yep, ill see u monday". Argh...wutever i guess ill just try a freeze out and give no attention to her.

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