i'm having a little bit of a mix up and my brain can't seem to figure this out. how do you destroy a girl's frame?

i understand maintaining a strong frame while eliciting your own values will absorb her into your reality, but i haven't come across any material that tells you how to destroy a girl's frame. it is quintessential that i understand this 'how-too'.

i'm mostly curious on destroying her frame while in an argument with her. i am beyond this shit and i don't want to go through the same old routine of either defending myself or bending over and taking it up the ass and saying sorry over nothing.

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Logic. Women don't have as solid a grasp on logic, due to being more rooted in emotional thinking and thus you throw a good dose of logic at them and they're gonna lose their foundations.

Now that you've got them thinking in a manner that isn't intuitive to them, mix it up by bringing in examples that are loosely connected and that distract her away from the original topic. It is very hard for anyone to admit when they are wrong, we are such stubborn creatures that we will argue against ourselves, even when deep down we know we are wrong. In order to avoid that problem, just use an example that can be related back to the topic after, prove your point there, once they agree, show them how it relates and back to applying the logic, mixed with just enough emotional wording, that she can connect to it and she'll either accept it and realise her argument doesn't work, or she'll just keep arguing, at which point there's really no way to win, just "win" and winning an argument just for the sake of winning usually ends up screwing you over in other ways.

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